What would you do? Wife has dd

My wife called from the psych ward. She has dd and is in love with tucker Carlson. She said that she loves me but is only in love with tucker. I am the driver and when she gets out she wants me to pick her up and she will go to San Francisco when ready. Of two
Choices what would you do:

1) pick her up/allow her to stay even though
She doesn’t love me (erotomania) And possibly never will remember. ( only 7% of marriages survive this) and yes I’d love her. But it’s killing me inside.

2) say no. You come here as my wife
Or live with your family. There is no more of us until tucker is not a part of you.

She very rarely
Calls me and thinks my visits
And calls are done as friends.

Please
Give me your honest opinion.
I want all angles
That I
Have not thought of.

Please Notice - Lyrics
And baby when you sleep, do you dream of me?
And when you're awake, do you think of me? I need to know, how do you feel?
Cause baby when I sleep, I dream of you And when I'm awake, that's all I do Think about every detail you have
Do you notice when I get mad, I clench my jaw?
Do you notice when I get sad, I tend to fall? Look at my words I say to you
Cause I notice when you get mad You close your eyes
And I notice when you are sad you let out sighs
I need to know are those sighs ever over me?
Do you know how in love with you I am
Do you see how in love with you
I am?
Every thing that you do, it makes my heart stop
Oh, it stops
And baby when you sleep, do you dream of me?
Christian abridge

Hi， I am very sad to hear this. It seems she doesn't get better, she still needs therapy. You really don't need to give her an answer. Maybe it is better to discuss this situation with her doctor.Take care yourself.

Thank you for your reply. I think your correct the best thing to do is not give an answer. Yet. She has a family with resources that are supposed to step in. I haven’t gone to see her in two days/ our anniversary is Sunday. 16 years. Again today on the phone she said happy anniversary to my #3 husband. I know who 1 of the two other is but not both. I asked and she said she pleads the fifth. Inside, I was thinking is this funny to you. How much antipsychotic does it take. Anyways thanks again