Need some hope here

So I've just recently come to terms with the fact that I have Jealous Personality Disorder; in fact, I pretty much read the story of my life (minus the violent part - I'm too much of a hippy lol) while reading the wiki on Morbid Jealousy. I'm realizing I've struggled with it for the entirety of my adult life but it has finally struck me as truth now that I stand to lose a very awesome person in my life and so I've been snapping out of the dream enough to be real with myself.

It hurts.

I'd be glad to fill in the parts of the story when I have some more time but my question for this forum is: Are there any stories of hope? Suggestions to get well? Good reads/links?

Thank you for your help in advance.