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Re: Strong urges

Postby Deafgirl369 » Tue Apr 11, 2023 9:55 am

Snaga wrote:You can't get out with friends or just- out? Wherever there are other people?


Unfortunately, I have no friends and walking alone where I live isn't safe. I don't have my license to drive anywhere either. I just have nothing to distract my brain anymore.
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Re: Strong urges

Postby Snaga » Fri Apr 14, 2023 12:27 am

Well I'm sorry to hear that on both points. If it's not safe, no, you shouldn't go walking.

And maybe it's just me, but socialising online just isn't a replacement for being with people in the flesh. Our species needs that, I think.
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Re: Strong urges

Postby Deafgirl369 » Fri Apr 14, 2023 1:34 am

Snaga wrote:Well I'm sorry to hear that on both points. If it's not safe, no, you shouldn't go walking.

And maybe it's just me, but socialising online just isn't a replacement for being with people in the flesh. Our species needs that, I think.


I have my husband, but with his job I barely see him anymore. He's my only support person in real life.
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Re: Strong urges

Postby Snaga » Sat Apr 15, 2023 1:03 am

Well, I work a lot of hours, I can't say anything about him. Mind you, I wasn't given the option as to how much I work... just kinda told that I am.
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Re: Strong urges

Postby Deafgirl369 » Sat Apr 15, 2023 8:21 pm

Snaga wrote:Well, I work a lot of hours, I can't say anything about him. Mind you, I wasn't given the option as to how much I work... just kinda told that I am.


It's just hard at times. Especially when I'm left by myself.
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Re: Strong urges

Postby Snaga » Sun Apr 16, 2023 2:10 am

Definitely. I wish there were a way you could be around others more. No suitable neighbors?
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Re: Strong urges

Postby Deafgirl369 » Thu Apr 20, 2023 11:08 pm

Snaga wrote:Definitely. I wish there were a way you could be around others more. No suitable neighbors?


Unfortunately not...I live a secluded life right now. I live in a apartment complex and there is a lot of fighting that happens here...
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Re: Strong urges

Postby Snaga » Fri Apr 21, 2023 12:36 am

Well, that's not good, I'm sorry to hear that.
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Re: Strong urges

Postby Deafgirl369 » Fri Apr 21, 2023 1:24 am

It's ok...I'm hoping to be moving soon. Finding a place seems to be hard though, but I'm hoping that I can find one soon.
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Re: Strong urges

Postby Snaga » Sun Apr 23, 2023 2:06 am

Deafgirl369 wrote:It's ok...I'm hoping to be moving soon. Finding a place seems to be hard though, but I'm hoping that I can find one soon.


You and your husband?
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