by longdistvger » Sat Apr 25, 2009 11:50 am
Probably some of the most compassionate books I've read about how to live life "post-religion" have been written by atheists.
Eric Maisel (IIRC) recently wrote a book called "The Atheist's Way" that demonstrates how to create meaning in life. I believe he takes a standpoint that we may not ever prove that there's a God, but that there are ways to go about living life by making up your own mind about what the meaning or "purpose" of life is.
Another, probably not the best one I can refer you to however, is by Robert M. Price, a churchgoing atheist and biblical scholar, who wrote a book called "The Reason-Driven Life." It's probably not best to start with this book since it's a direct criticism of Warren's "The Purpose-Driven Life" unless you are already familiar with that work. But Price goes through and quotes several biblical passages and demonstrates that much of the bible does contain advice that can be used to build a meaningful life.
Though I have not read this author yet, I might also recommend "Losing Faith in Faith" by Dan Barker. I have heard much about it and look forward to reading it myself.
I think I know what you're going through. I was raised Mormon and was an avid believer until my early 20s. I then went from that to Paganism and Wicca to LaVeyan Satanism then finally to atheism. It's been a wild ride for me, but worth it. But I know what it was like to cringe in fear of hellfire and damnation. It's not an easy path to get off of. I was further urged off the path of religion altogether when I saw that being transsexual and gay was not conducive to Mormon lifestyle. I just could not find proof of any God in my life, so I just don't worry about heaven OR hell anymore. The journey has made me appreciate studying all religions objectively, all philosophies, and for once in my life, I enjoy reading about science and thought like never before.
Don't worry about the destination. Concentrate on the path. And enjoy the journey. That's just my two cents.