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Question on 'Ritualized Abuse'

Postby Chant2012 » Mon Sep 02, 2013 12:48 pm

So, I wasn't abused in a cult setting in the sense that it was religiously/Satanically based; but I was abused in a systematic manner that utilized facets of mind control techniques (gas lighting, brainwashing, and repeated physical/emotional/sexual/verbal/mental abuses) to get me compliant and 'trained' or 'conditioned' to the abuse so I would do what he wanted how he wanted... I was like a puppet...

So, this is ritualized abuse, not necessarily cult/ritual abuse right? It still fits though? Just wondering.

Also, would I be able to share that here? Or would I first have to PM it to a moderator for them to view it first to make sure it's not too 'much'.

Thanks! Blessings! <3

~Chantel~
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Postby Chant2012 » Wed Sep 04, 2013 3:52 pm

I hope I didn't offend anyone by me asking this...
I just really needed some input... but maybe this was wrong...
I apologize if it was... :/
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Re: Question on 'Ritualized Abuse'

Postby CrackedGirl » Fri Sep 06, 2013 9:14 am

Hi

Sorry to have missed this - this is a pretty quiet forum

Chant2012 wrote:So, I wasn't abused in a cult setting in the sense that it was religiously/Satanically based; but I was abused in a systematic manner that utilized facets of mind control techniques (gas lighting, brainwashing, and repeated physical/emotional/sexual/verbal/mental abuses) to get me compliant and 'trained' or 'conditioned' to the abuse so I would do what he wanted how he wanted... I was like a puppet...

So, this is ritualized abuse, not necessarily cult/ritual abuse right? It still fits though? Just wondering.

Also, would I be able to share that here? Or would I first have to PM it to a moderator for them to view it first to make sure it's not too 'much'.

Thanks! Blessings! <3

~Chantel~


I was abused on a christian college in ritualistic ways but it was not "typical" Satanic abuse - I still consider it to be ritualised abuse. It sounds like the kind of things you went through about being trained and conditioned would go along with ritualised abuse - although that is just my opinion. YOu are welcome to share about this if you want to - I will listen and try my best to help

Sorry again for the late reply

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Re: Question on 'Ritualized Abuse'

Postby Chant2012 » Fri Sep 06, 2013 2:42 pm

CrackedGirl wrote:Hi

Sorry to have missed this - this is a pretty quiet forum

Chant2012 wrote:So, I wasn't abused in a cult setting in the sense that it was religiously/Satanically based; but I was abused in a systematic manner that utilized facets of mind control techniques (gas lighting, brainwashing, and repeated physical/emotional/sexual/verbal/mental abuses) to get me compliant and 'trained' or 'conditioned' to the abuse so I would do what he wanted how he wanted... I was like a puppet...

So, this is ritualized abuse, not necessarily cult/ritual abuse right? It still fits though? Just wondering.

Also, would I be able to share that here? Or would I first have to PM it to a moderator for them to view it first to make sure it's not too 'much'.

Thanks! Blessings! <3

~Chantel~


I was abused on a christian college in ritualistic ways but it was not "typical" Satanic abuse - I still consider it to be ritualised abuse. It sounds like the kind of things you went through about being trained and conditioned would go along with ritualised abuse - although that is just my opinion. YOu are welcome to share about this if you want to - I will listen and try my best to help

Sorry again for the late reply

Cracked


Hi! Nice to hear from you. The late reply is completely fine. I am sorry that you were also abused in a ritualized manner. Just wondering, but how much can I share? What I have typed up is very detailed and really looooong. Thanks again! :)
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Re: Question on 'Ritualized Abuse'

Postby CrackedGirl » Fri Sep 06, 2013 2:47 pm

It would be worth putting a trigger in the title just in case. If there is anything that is too graphic I can edit it out. As much as possible tho we like to let ppl be as honest and open as they want about their abuse.

It might also be worth putting a trigger warning before the text too. This means that ppl will be warned in case they would find it difficult to read.

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Re: Question on 'Ritualized Abuse'

Postby Chant2012 » Fri Sep 06, 2013 3:13 pm

CrackedGirl wrote:It would be worth putting a trigger in the title just in case. If there is anything that is too graphic I can edit it out. As much as possible tho we like to let ppl be as honest and open as they want about their abuse.

It might also be worth putting a trigger warning before the text too. This means that ppl will be warned in case they would find it difficult to read.

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Ok thanks! :)
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*Major Depressive Disorder: age 19
*C-PTSD: age 21
*Personality Disorder NOS: age 22
*Anorexia Nervosa: age 22
*Fibromyalgia: age 24
*DID/DDNOS: age 24 (waiting on official diagnosis)

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