My wife is a compulsive liar

My wife and I got in a terrible argument. I didn’t want to be any part of it so I tried to leave. She physically blocked my exit by pushing me and grabbing my clothes. We ended up wrestling and I pinned her and screamed for her to keep her hands off of me.
The next morning, she went to my parents’ house and told them god knows what. They convinced her to put the restraining order against me.
On the phone with my mother, after my wife left, she told me that if I went to AA and brought back my first chip that my dad would drop the restraining order. Wait, what!? I nearly shat myself. You what? Who? My dad?? Whaaaaat?? They had apparently devised this whole scheme of putting the TPO on me so that they could force me to change somehow… but they weren’t clear on how I should change at all. They’d never mentioned this before.
So, I figure okay, I’ll go to AA. I went and brought back my first chip. I called my mom and told her I’d done what she asked. She said they’d be moving forward with the plan anyway. I asked why and my mother could only say “It’s important to still go to the hearing”. Heh!?
I do go through periods where I drink too much… but I think that maybe someone could have mentioned this without going to a public forum and declaring that I’d attacked my wife and then threatened her life. It was so humiliating.

Are you sure there weren’t discussions previously that maybe you didn’t take seriously?

If this situation is exactly as you’re explaining it, I’m sorry you’re going through this. Do you really want to be married to someone who’s so manipulative and deceiving? I’d use this as an out and get a divorce. As for your parents, it’s really disappointing that they’d act this way. I’d understand if you’ve been violent or abusive around them, but if not, this is a really nasty thing for them to do to you, and you’re probably better off without them too.

There’s so many negative people in the world who feed off drama, you don’t need them. I understand that they’re your parents, and you probably don’t want to cut them out of your life, but perhaps you should just take a step back and limit how much contact they have with you and how much they know about your life. I’ve had people, family included, meddle in my life many times, and as soon as I pull back and stop giving them the opportunity to hurt me, they pull their heads in and realise that I’m not going to engage in their games.

I’m sorry you’re in this situation. Good Luck.