pregnant, in love with a compulsive liar.

We met online the beginning of June 2016, ever since the day we met we've been inseparable. He claimed to be here because of an internship and that he'd be leaving about a month later, only after a few days he had decided to stay for me. He told me he could help pay for my schooling, and he would take a year off of his so I could complete mine. Claimed to be a virgin, and since he has had cancer since a child he shouldn't be able to have children. We have sex and lone behold I'm pregnant, it must be a miracle(and of course regardless of that being a lie or not she is a miracle)! I continue working for a while and everything was great until a few weeks later.
He warned me about one of his exes who is a little off her rocker, he tells me how he left her because she got pregnant but they never even had sex and now she chooses to be in disbelief that he left. I receive multiple screenshots and messages from her saying how he's a liar, how he'll take me on these awesome adventures and then just leave me stranded. I should've left right there, I'm unsure why I believed that someone would have the ability to fake screenshots, but I love him and so I believed him. I slowly started cutting off my two best friends because they were telling me this guy doesn't sound like he's telling the truth. I put him on my phone plan, and we plan to move out of state, all the way across the country because his dad will make sure we have everything we need over there.
At this point I'm behind on car payments because he was telling me untrue things about money, but everything is supposed to be fine when we got to the new state we'd be living in, so I left my car behind to get repossessed and we hopped in the car with his friend to move. Once we arrived there nothing ended up being true, but the excuse continued to be because other people are telling him things that just keep changing and everything will be fine. Also let it be noted I cut off my dad from speaking to me because he was so disapproving of the whole situation. We find somewhere to stay online which is near nothing, the closest hospital was 30 miles away, all this happening while we're about 10 weeks pregnant. He tells me it'll only be a few weeks until everything that was supposed to happen ends up happening. I continue to believe him because he's so persistent on believing what he's saying, a lot of lies were told over the course of those 4 months, but long story short we ended up having to come back to the first state we were in and my dad finally was on board with us being together because of the baby.
We get back home, even though I have a lot more debt now than before everything finally feels like it'll be ok. He tells me he has a job that allows him to work from home, and a lot of other reassuring things about money. I'm telling him throughout this whole thing that I don't care if he lied about everything I want to know so I can start saving up for our child if I need to, and that I won't leave him no matter what. He's still sticking to what he's been saying the last 6 months and saying it's all true. Talking about all this money that's coming to him on his 23rd birthday and how it'll all be ok. I slowly start to get him to tell me a few of his lies, so I go to an interview to get a job and get it. I get home and he's gone, my dad kicked him out and got very violent with him so he didn't wait for me to get home. I hear about how he was violent and I'm still believing my fiancé at this point so as I'm packing to leave I break my ankle at 29 weeks pregnant and have to get surgery on it. I refuse to stay with my father though because I don't feel safe around him. A lot of more huge lies were told over the course of the last few weeks, and I FINALLY got him to confess to lying, and being a compulsive liar. I'm not entirely sure what all is a lie and what all is the truth but he's told me a lot of what he's been lying about and as I promised him before I will be here for him no matter what.
I have dealt with mental illness from my mom since i was about 13, so I have no problem helping him through this, I just need to know maybe some success stories and ways to cope with all this? We are so close to our child being here, I don't want to make him deal with this alone, he admitted he has a problem so I have hope. I'm just really worried and I don't know what to do, he says he's working right now to get us money for an apartment since my dad kicked him out. We will see on Monday if he comes home or not.

Hugs Momtobe123 ,

You are in a difficult situation and I am sorry that you are going through this . I'm sure you realize that it is critical that he gets professional help .

In the meantime , you need to secure your finances for your child and yourself . While I don't condone your father's violence , do you think he was being over-protective of you ?
I don't know what kind of relationship you've had with him in the past but I think it a good choice to cut out the people in our lives who are causing us constant pain and drama .

You and your child come first . We can't help anyone if we are not in a strong and secure place ourselves .

It concerns me that your considering brining a child into this situation.
Why are you so willing to put this guys needs over your own? When he clearly doesn't do the same.
Let's say he agrees to get help. How can you be sure he will go. Do you really want to spend all your time holding his hand to appointments, checking and double checking everything he does.

I say if you decide to stay with him, you will have to do so as he is. You know he lies, most never confess to the full extent to which they lie. Deciding to be with someone in the hopes they will change rarely works out well.

You need to take care of yourself first and foremost, to enable you to care for your child. He should be supporting you.

Whatever happens I wish you all the best in you and your babies future.