I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO

Im good Im trying to loose weight Im going to a therapy and she is asking me are u eating and stuffi tell her yes anyway yesterday I only ate a small lunch and today I ate breakfast thats it Im not going to eat anymore today Im going t summer school SO I CAN TELL MY MOM AND MY THRAPY THAT I EAT AT SCHOOL. my DR told me that I need to be 120 so right now Im 120 I dont want to eat ever again I feel so FAT I KNOW ITS BAD BUT I REALLY CANT CONTROL MYSELF SHOULD I TELL MY THERAPY ? IM A LIL SHY WHAT SHOULD I TELL HER CAN U PLIZ TELL ME
THANKS MELISSA.

Yes Melissa, you need to tell her!!

I'm sooooo proud of you for gaining some weight and for eating!! *BIG HUGS* Hunny, you aren't fat!! Please talk to your therapist. She'll understand. That's what she's therefor--to help you with this problem. She doesn't expect you to be "all better" all of a sudden. Tell her exactly what's going on!!

Once again, I'm VERY PROUD of you for eating a little and for gaining weight. Please don't stop eating!! It scares me when you say that you're going too.

BIG HUGS!!!

~element

Im really depress I had a new bf anyway we went his house and he started calling me a slut and stuff forced me to have sex with him Im so scare he had a knife with him so I had to do what he told me i feel so disgusted I dont want to live anymore

OMG.

Hunny, you need to tell someone about this immediately!!! What he did to you was rape. You need to tell your mom or someone like that immediately!! This isn't your fault!! You don't need to kill yourself. Please, please tell someone immediately!!!

element is right.....you need to report your boyfriend...that was rape. And it most certainly was NOT your fault. Not only do you need to talk w/ someone about your eating issues...which if you are not full blown eating disorder yet...you are on your way....and you need to talk about the rape to someone. You needn't worry about getting in trouble. You didn't do anything wrong. Please don't be afraid to speak up and talk to someone...your parents/then police. That's what this jerk is banking on and how he will be able to hurt others after you. And I promise you he will. Don't try to convince yourself that you deserved this or that this guy will never act like that again.

I don't care if someone prostitutes themselves on a street corner for a living....forced sex is NOT ok no matter who you are or how you live your life. Whether you are as saintly as they come or whether someone truly is a "slut"....NO ONE deserves to be raped. When it's forced against what YOU choose...it's RAPE and it's wrong and that person should pay the price for raping. So nothing you say to me will convince me you had this coming or it was your fault. Please seek help.

today he told me he was really sorry than we went to the mall and than to his house and he told me that I am his slut and I need to have sex with him and other really gross stuff and than he told me that he gonna kill me if I ever tell anyone or if Im not doing what he told me to do .tomorrow Im going to y therapy I really dont know what to tell her .I feel like I have no control in my life my mom made me gain weight when I wanted to be thin this boy forcing me to have sex with him this girl I just meet is addicted to sex and she want to have sex with this 30 years old guy I know ewww anyway I FEEL THAT THE BEST WAY TO COPE WITH FEELING IS STARVING .
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HOW ARE U element i HOPE UR DOING wonderful

You need to get out of this relationship...away from this guy...get a restraining order if necessary....but GO TO THE POLICE. TALK w/ your mom. You say your mom made you gain weight when you wanted to be thin. Can you elaborate on that? I am assuming that your situation is more that your mom was concerned w/ your weight loss...as in that it was very unhealthy and it's not that she wanted you to gain weight so you'd not be thin...but more so she wanted you to gain an appropriate amount of weight so you'd not be "sickly" thin.

At any rate. This guy needs serious help and you need help due to his actions as well.

Anonymous wrote:today he told me he was really sorry than we went to the mall and than to his house and he told me that I am his slut and I need to have sex with him and other really gross stuff and than he told me that he gonna kill me if I ever tell anyone or if Im not doing what he told me to do .tomorrow Im going to y therapy I really dont know what to tell her .I feel like I have no control in my life my mom made me gain weight when I wanted to be thin this boy forcing me to have sex with him this girl I just meet is addicted to sex and she want to have sex with this 30 years old guy I know ewww anyway I FEEL THAT THE BEST WAY TO COPE WITH FEELING IS STARVING .
BTW \
HOW ARE U element i HOPE UR DOING wonderful

If you talk to your parents and the police, the he won't be able to kill you!! Melissa, you really need to tell your parents...or your counselor. You just need to talk to an adult that can help you. This guy is just going to continue to hurt you and he may hurt someone else. Don't listen to him when he's says he's sorry. You don't just say "sorry" for raping someone and then pretend that all is well. He needs help, just as you do.

I hope you'll change your mind about starving. You're a really nice girl, and it would be soooo sad if you just gave up and starved to death.

*big hugs*

Please believe me when I tell you that if you talk to your parents and to the police about this...things will get better.

And you were doing so well with gaining weight back and eating. I'm very proud of you for that. Please just keep it up.

As far as I'm concerned, this morning, I'm doing fine.

~element

hows it going?

HEY IM DOING FINE IM NOT TALKING WITH THIS GUY IM NOT STARVING MYSELF BUT AFTER I EAT I THROW UP THNK U SO MUCH ELEMENT FOR BEING UNDERSTANDING
HAVE A NICE DAY