Adoptive Parents out there??

Just wondering if there were other adoptive parents out there that have kids that have been drug exposed in the womb. I have 2 boys and neither have a dx, but both have issues, both have qualified for EI and ECSE.

My older son has some impulse control issues, my younger son has some language and communication issues. I am on a special needs adoption website ( www.happymomanna.com ) which has helped me out SO MUCH! I just wondered if there were any parents here that are hitting their heads against walls trying to figure out how to help thier child(ren) by adoption.

I am an adoptive parent, but fortunately the adopted child was not exposed to drugs. However, the birth mother was ill and there were birth complications. The child's skull has a prominent anomaly but the doctors say it has no bearing on the mood instability and sleep problems the child developed.

Jaspar