Help Disownment!!!!

I have received a couple of phone calls of both of my parents and emails. They want to disown me, but they don't want to do the paperwork.

My Step-father doesn't want to disown because im a big dollar sign to him, he only wants me in the papers, because since he didn't adopt me and co-signed for my student loans. The government gives him a ridiculous amount of tax money. Plus he has 2 kids, they want me to do the paperwork.

I need to disown, if i don't i will reach insanity, she still is doing damage even though i don't speak to her. Even if i lived far away, she will find a way into putting me in bankrupsy or find new ways of once again stealing my identity and using my social security. My step father and mother won't do the paperwork. And the reason why, it's because of the money they get from me, he is very smart and knows that i can't do the paperwork, because laywers have judged me before they even took my case and told me that i was a horrible person etc... for doing such things.

They don't know what i've been through and still am, my step father is doing it on purpose so that i have no power whatsoever. This is killing me...

PLEASE HELP ME...someone anyone please.... give me any information or any lawyers i can contact i beg you... I'm completely ruined, i can't go to college anymore, she kicked me out of my apartment complex, the entire family hates me, lawyers wont help me. They won't disown for the money, i own money from my old bills my step father told them to bill me. And theirs nothing i can do because he is not my real father.

I have no money, i have no future, i have no home and no family. My little brothers will loath me, and everyone that knows me mother does.

I'm falling apart... i want to survive... i'm at the edge of just giving up my life. I don't want to live this way, im trying to fight, but im losing no doors are opening for me, i don't think i will make it.

My first advice would be to contact the ACLU and see what they can do for you. They do alot of pro bono (for free) work and they have the resources to be able to help you.

Hi Anonymous 20

You must be feeling really alone right now. I would suggest that you look up about NPD (narcissistic personality disorder) as this could fit the description of your mother and her behaviour. There is also an index on this site. It's good that you can talk to your boyfriend. And also get the other advice suggested by other reply. I think you have done so well to get as far as you have. I think you are right about getting some distance right now. It's what you really need. Don't feel bad about this - sometimes people just have to do this. Let us know how you got on. Best of luck!