How long can I expect "extended childhood" to last?

I'm not sure where to post, I can't post too much detail since this makes me nauseas already.
I have some info after reading this article: http://shrink4men.com/2012/10/02/why-so ... -children/

I'm a bit over 30, I moved/fled from "home" when I was 25 years old after a "controversial" childhood and "childhood", since then I have been harassed almost daily to the extent that my life is now ruined beyond repair (no details), but I will have to fullfill some resposibiltites before I die.

I live in the country Sweden where the government pusblish your home adress online, or you will not (no compromise) get your mail, be able to pay taxes (no normal job then either), get medical care, register a car and so on and you will constantly get harassed by the police asking you where you live. I'm unskilled, have resposibilities and can't emigrate to some nearby country since they don't want me. As far as I know these rules only apply to sweden and Norway in the entire world!?

How long does this sort of harssment usually last? Will it ever wear off or is this till death?

I'm totally worn out after so many years.

There is different rules in other parts of the world. I've never heard of any of those things before.

Question though... Could you just change your name? It wouldn't matter if your address was published if the people harassing you don't know what you are called...