spanking and sexuality

I read the thread about spanking, and I'd like to add this:

It is absolutely reprehensible to slap a child on his buttocks, bare or not. It’s a place close to the genitals, and whatever a child may have done, it surely does not deserve punishment that induces to rather questionable sexual behaviour in adulthood. The grown-up child tends to expose himself to sexual perverts, and it tends to inflict pain on his or her partner during so-called sexual behaviour.
It is spanking that has lead to the huge industry of sado-masochisme. We never learn to question our own sexuality, because perverse sexual behaviour is so common practice. For ages.

Parents have the tendency to put their desire to spank and to dominate into service of a higher cause. But this is just pretence, because it enables them to enjoy their lust of power without feeling guilt. They can tell themselves that they do not spank their children because they like to spank, but because their children deserve punishment.

LOL.

The bum is smacked because it is the fleashiest part of the body which causes the least pain and injury.

Whether you find it right or wrong dosent matter. Opinions are like assholes.

Now that I think about it, the tummy is close to the genitals, so tickling their little bellies must be abuse, too. Surely those tickled on the tummy have been scientifically proven to expose themselves to sexual perverts, so we MUST stop tickling our children's stomachs immediately.

Since I was spanked, I will watch myself closely for any signs of sado-masochism. I haven't yet fallen victim to that inevitable problem, but it will undoubtedly happen someday based on your statement.

Furthermore, I would like to see the study that proves this, so I can show my parents how badly they have ruined me. This way, when I start investing in whips, chains, and rubber outfits, they will understand it's their fault.

All your reactions do not concern my posting, they have to do with your own uneasiness. Tickling, chickadee, is not the same as hitting, aren’t you able to differentiate?
and you, Jamie, ever considered your sexuality?

You really do not come up with any valid arguments to proof my wrong, you obviously have to ridicule me in order to get rid of your own uneasiness. In that you prove your identification with the abusive parent: ridicule the other, make the other the laughing stock.

You really do not come up with any valid arguments to proof my wrong, you obviously have to ridicule me in order to get rid of your own uneasiness.

It's not my job to prove you're wrong... it is your responsibility to back up your own claims. I am just responding with the seriousness that I feel this entire thread warrants. I am uncomfortable with your unsubstantiated claims... nothing more.

Are you comfortable knowing that 63% of children who are spanked marry for life, or that 2/3 of all children who are spanked graduate from college? Of course... these numbers have nothing to do with anything because I made them up. Without substantiation, your own hypotheses are just as useful as what I just made up.

female grown-up wrote:All your reactions do not concern my posting, they have to do with your own uneasiness. Tickling, chickadee, is not the same as hitting, aren’t you able to differentiate?
and you, Jamie, ever considered your sexuality?

You really do not come up with any valid arguments to proof my wrong, you obviously have to ridicule me in order to get rid of your own uneasiness. In that you prove your identification with the abusive parent: ridicule the other, make the other the laughing stock.

Well if you read the other thread then you'd know i in there posted information to prove your point not wrong but not sound. It's all debatable and if the adults can discuss it without the children complaining to the Mods and admin then maybe we can all learn something.

There is no uneasiness Female grown-up.

I personally dont identify with my parents at all on this topic, the thought is silly. One was excessive the other submissive and indifferent and i myself wouldnt abuse my child nor ignore them. I can dechipher between whats appropriate and whats not. And i have reached that conclusion myself with my own common sense and logic which also happens to be shared and supported by the general population and law. See i'd be in the middle of the spectrum on one end its excessive with people who abuse, on the other its those who cater to there children. The middle/grey area is where most people are. Then there the fanatics who come up with things like spanking your childs bottom leads to things like colombine, or the manson family, or heroin addiction or sexual promiscuity or something else because of this this that and this and its all theoretical.


Jamie, ever considered your sexuality?

what do you mean by this?.

JamieJ23 wrote:Whether you find it right or wrong dosent matter. Opinions are like assholes.

Opinions are like assholes...

JamieJ23 wrote:There is no uneasiness miss nobody.

...miss nobody...

Is this a "Child Abuse Forum" or some other type of abuse forum?

273 wrote:

JamieJ23 wrote:Whether you find it right or wrong dosent matter. Opinions are like assholes.

Opinions are like assholes...

JamieJ23 wrote:There is no uneasiness miss nobody.

...miss nobody...

Is this a "Child Abuse Forum" or some other type of abuse forum?

...miss nobody...

Didnt catch that, wrong handle. It's been fixed.

Opinions are like assholes...

As in everybodys got one.

Is this a "Child Abuse Forum" or some other type of abuse forum?

Aside from the handle mixup and the implication that would have. I dont get what you mean.

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JamieJ23 wrote:

273 wrote:

JamieJ23 wrote:Whether you find it right or wrong dosent matter. Opinions are like assholes.

Opinions are like assholes...

JamieJ23 wrote:There is no uneasiness miss nobody.

...miss nobody...

Is this a "Child Abuse Forum" or some other type of abuse forum?

...miss nobody...

Didnt catch that, wrong handle. It's been fixed.

Opinions are like assholes...

As in everybodys got one.

Is this a "Child Abuse Forum" or some other type of abuse forum?

Aside from the handle mixup and the implication that would have. I dont get what you mean.

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You did not catch that... I thought so.