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I'm Sorry.

Postby Ahcigar1 » Mon Jun 04, 2012 4:36 am

Two simple words that can mean so much. I'm sorry. That is what I got today.

I honestly can't remember a day that I wasn't tormented and still to this day can't.

From getting chased down and beat up home from the bus stop to having a my teacher on my last day of high school tell me "I'm happy to see you go because you are my least favorite student of all".

I run into people from my past at times and when they recognize me I act dumb and as if have no idea who they are talking about. It has always worked in the past or at least they let me think that it has. Except for today.

Was out shopping a bit and came across one of my biggest tormentors of all. One of the leaders of the actions. I really didn't want to talk to her obviously bused so I did my usual of acting dumb. Except this time she didn't fall for it. She Knew exactly who I was. And what she said I am still in shock about.

"I know who you are, and for what it is worth I am truely sorry for all that I did to you in the past, it was really wrong of me. And I'm sorry"

The power that just two words have is amazing. A very very small piece of me healed in that moment.
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Re: I'm Sorry.

Postby ebb » Tue Jun 05, 2012 7:20 pm

that's really awesome. it's comforting to know that people can change.
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Re: I'm Sorry.

Postby LoveAndLight » Tue Jun 19, 2012 12:19 pm

That was a beautiful story, thanks for sharing!

Isn't it amazing how sorry seems to be the hardest word, yet some blatantly refuse to say those small words because they can't live with the fact that they have acted in a wrong way :?:

I have often wondered how things could get so easily solved by the other party just saying sorry and hence admitting they did wrong, not you - instead it becomes this neverending story that never gets closure.

Very happy to hear that you got to hear those words ;)

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Re: I'm Sorry.

Postby Anxious58 » Tue Jun 19, 2012 12:41 pm

ahh real apologies are so beautiful :) . Although rare as most apologies are forced. But that is really cool and powerful, it made me feel tingly. Powerful moments make me feel that way.
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Re: I'm Sorry.

Postby mels8780 » Tue Jul 17, 2012 12:06 am

Ahcigar1 wrote:Two simple words that can mean so much. I'm sorry. That is what I got today.

I honestly can't remember a day that I wasn't tormented and still to this day can't.

From getting chased down and beat up home from the bus stop to having a my teacher on my last day of high school tell me "I'm happy to see you go because you are my least favorite student of all".

I run into people from my past at times and when they recognize me I act dumb and as if have no idea who they are talking about. It has always worked in the past or at least they let me think that it has. Except for today.

Was out shopping a bit and came across one of my biggest tormentors of all. One of the leaders of the actions. I really didn't want to talk to her obviously bused so I did my usual of acting dumb. Except this time she didn't fall for it. She Knew exactly who I was. And what she said I am still in shock about.

"I know who you are, and for what it is worth I am truely sorry for all that I did to you in the past, it was really wrong of me. And I'm sorry"

The power that just two words have is amazing. A very very small piece of me healed in that moment.



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When you look down into my eyes
My feeling swiftly changed between happiness and sorrow
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I’m not you and you are not me
But your pain becomes my pain
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When you are wounded, my heart is hurt
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