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Postby Guest » Mon Nov 14, 2005 4:42 am

Hey, guys before I continue let me say that I'm not exactly sure how to use this place but Ia m going to try.

I am 14 years old and Im in year 9. Ever since year 7 I began to feel bullied and picked on. I remember one day in year 7, a girl that I didnt even like had her period in gym class. All of the boys in there gave her a hard time for it. I stuck up for her I told them all to get a grip. Ever since that day I have been bullied and hurt. It became worse as I got to High School, a group of seniors at my school known as the "hall boys", would not stop and leave me alone. I can't walk around the school without people screaming insults at me. I am 6 foot, rather tall for my age but I am skinny and brittle. I guess people see me as an easy target. I dress a little different to people, here they call me an "emo" or a "punk" usually with some word of offense after it. Half way through this year, a senior approached me after school as I was sitting down waiting for the bus. He began to mouth off and say things like I'm a Punker #######1 (sorry for the language). I replied with why are you down here? Why are you doing this? He then hit me in the face as I was on the ground. He didn't stop hitting me, I was being held back by someone, someone had me by my arms. I was cut under the eye and had problems reading and thinking for a week. We reported this to the police 6 months ago and nothing has been done about it. He was suspended and didn't come back. I still have to deal with his mates though. I have been bashed alot, sworn at crushed emotionally. It is beginnig to frustrate me to the max. My friend thats a senior has just left because the the year 12's leave about 4 weeks before us. The people who bully me are in year 11 and finnish when I do. My friend was my only protection, and now they have decided to seriously inflict some harm on me. i am scared for my life and I dont know what to do. my mother has suggested home schooling. I live on a farm in the middle of nowhere and and i told her that I would have no social life. the only time I can see my buds is at school where they too cop it from bullies. I need some help or just some way to stop this, please. Can anyone give me some advice?

Thank you for taking your time to read this. Greatly appreciated. Zac
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Postby Pretty_In_Blood » Tue Nov 15, 2005 4:43 am

Hey Zac, the names Twitch. I do have a few suggestions. My first is to get as much help from higher authorities as you can. Teachers, principles, councellors. Somtimes it does seem like they ignore you, but if you keep going back they will take some action. It is your school's responsibilitie to look after you, you deserve all the protection they can give you. Do the same thing with the police. Show these grade 11 idiots that, just because you're friend who protected you is gone, it doesn't mean that you're helpless. My second suggestion is, safety in numbers. Don't hang around the school yard alone where these halfwits can get you. Always have some friends with you, even 2 or 3. That way, you won't be targeted so brutally, it is intimidating. Also, I find if you get one or two girls to hang with you who know what it's like, they won't annoy you either. Guys generally won't attack girls, or hit them, because they know that they will get in alot more trouble for it, not only from teachers, but from their peers too. I am a girl and I have been beaten up before. Once a guy decided to do it and his own friends, who treated me in pretty much the same way he did, jumped on him and beat him up for beating me. Some guys are ###$, but few go as far as to hit a girl with brute force. My third suggestion is, go to some karate or tai kwon do lessons. Learn how to get out of the fights and how to stop blows. Learn how to act quickly when someone throws a punch at you. Also, running away from a fight doesn't mean you're some sort of weak person. It ensures your safety. Especially if you have braces or glasses or somthing that could break and ###$ up your face. If you don't take some action, nothings going to change. I hope I could help Zac. Until next time, just remember. If someone insults you, they are a small, insignificant person who doesn't matter, and what they say doesn't matter. Stay strong and don't let the bastards grind you down. Later Zac, Twitch.
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Postby grengsb » Sat Nov 26, 2005 5:32 pm

Hey I have been bullied mentally, psychically and, emotionally from my classmates and a teacher this wasn't just about oh he / she said this to me some of the things were threats to me.
I have been in counsling, therapy for this and probally will for a very long time.
So anyone who reads this PLEASE send me a email!!!!!!!!!!!
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Postby grengsb » Sat Nov 26, 2005 5:38 pm

Hey I have been bullied mentally, emotionally. This was from my classmates and a teacher this wasn't just like oh she/he said this or that it was.
It makes me UPSET when some kids/teens think that there all that and can ruin other kids life's.
My opion on this parents you need to talk commucaite with your child.
Anyone who reads this PLEASE send me a email!!!!!!!!!!!
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