Classification on bullying

unfortunatley i've been branded a bully.

but i dont think i ame

i dont go out of the way to make people hurt or feel bad.

if somebody starts and arguement with me i'll finnish, not with violence.

just confused is it because i'm atleast 1 ft taller and bigger then the rest of my class mates

Was it a schoolmate who branded you this?


It cannot be solely to do with the fact that you are 1 foot taller and generally bigger than the rest of your class. Sure, some might be intimidated by you but they would not call you a bully just for being bigger than they are.


A person does not have to be violent to be a bully either. The commonest form of bullying is verbal. Do you call anybody any unusual names? Do you laugh at people?


I think it is great that you have posted here. It's brilliant.

thanks,

i do laugh at people. yes but not Over the top. like i'll apologise.

if somebody does start and agruement i'll finnish it. which may be it

It's admirable for you to be trying to find out why you have been branded a bully... ... ...Really, great.

The thing with the laughing is that people will remember you laughing at them, and not the apology. Remember that...

Bully wrote:unfortunatley i've been branded a bully.

but i dont think i ame

i dont go out of the way to make people hurt or feel bad.

if somebody starts and arguement with me i'll finnish, not with violence.

just confused is it because i'm atleast 1 ft taller and bigger then the rest of my class mates

i have also been told i am a bully..
when i am Not...
i used to stand at the bus stopin 1998 with a bunch of young kids not many and i started on one girl well only fit in and i wish i never now..
but all i did was spit at the girl becasue i was being bullied my self.
And i never ment to do that but that is all i did.

I was always the tallest person in my class, a graduating class of 995, so yeah I was tall, I am tall.

I was always picked on until I was in 9th grade, hundreds and hundreds of times, because I was the tallest and didn't fight.

Then one day I did. From age 14-23, 13 fights, all in self defense. Every person I hit I maimed. Yes, that is right. The blazing anger and rage that all that picking caused in me brought into the open.

Then I became the bully, wispered reputation. I didn't care. Nobody that ever heard or saw me hit someone ever messed with me. Good enough, better then getting beat 2-3 times a day.

Good luck working yours out,
W