Bullied About My Weight But There Are Far Bigger People.

I weigh somewhere around possibly over 250lbs on a 5’11 frame and realize that I could stand to lose a few pounds (understatement) it’s a work in process I’m eating healthier and exercising more, but I am often treated like the “fattest person in the world” when there are people 500lbs and well over it who have layers of fat on top of layers of fat etc. Just really don’t get why these people are somehow invisible and left alone but yet I’m made to feel like the center attraction at the park zoo because of my weight. I also can’t even eat a salad in public without being gawked at and hearing someone whispering about my weight but yet a 400lb guy can eat three double cheeseburgers and no one says a thing to, about or within ear shot of him.

Even back in high school and college I was treated like I was the “fattest guy in school” even though there were guys who were 2 and 3 times my size who like much larger people in the present were ignored and left alone some were even part of the “in crowd” and were considered “cool” in spite of their enormous girth. No idea what it was that made me such a target regarding my weight when I was far from and am still far from the biggest person.

I get bullied about my weight too. I'm only 4'11" but weigh 238. Too fat, I know. Trying to lose weight.
I ride public transportation and I hear names like "fat a** b***h" constantly. One nice mouthy young lady whacked me over the head with a schoolbook bc she didn't like something I said (i.e. eavesdropping) and said "why don't you take a bike to work or better yet walk? You could sure use the exercise." The whole bus roared in laughter (including the driver). Another man said I was so fat I took up two seats. I do NOT. Again the bus roared in laughter. Yet I see people riding the bus who do indeed take up two seats because of their obesity, and nobody dares to insult them. Makes me sick.

People who make such comments reveal how nasty they are. They probably have miserable lives so they want to bully ppl they deem vulnerable.
The next time someone makes a fat comment, I might just tell them I'm a female sumo wrestler in training. LOL