HELP! I NEVER THOUGHT I WOULD EVER POST HERE!

bigdeal_1 wrote:Help...

This is a crisis...as a matter of fact the biggest crisis I have dealt with and I have seen a lot in my life. The reason this is BIG is because it involves my son

I have a darling loving son in Kindergarten now. He has been to pre-k two years before this so basically this is his third year. He never had any problems before. But from the beginning of this school year, a boy in his class (who is over-weight, taller, and very spoiled) has been BULLYING MY BOY!!

I didn't think the bullying was anything serious. I initially thought, well little kids play. Until one day my son came home his whole face black and blue because the bulley boy pushed him hard on the paved hill as they were walking out of school and there was a car coming by.

On another day, I was SHOCKED when my son came home and the bully boy had PEED ON HIM!! The urine was on the back of my sons clothes, meaning that my son didn't see him doing it initially. That incident set me off and I went and talked to his teacher and she said she will talk to the bully boy and handle it.

Today, my son came home with his nose swollen and bleeding. I asked him and he said the same bully boy was trying to take his sand toys away from him and when my son refused the bully boy shoved him so hard, my sons face went smash into the pole.

I already talked to the teacher about all of this. She said the bully kid is a difficult child and she is having a hard time dealing with him in class. He disturpts the class and doesn't respond to her at all. She said that she wasn't responsible for the bullying the happened after class when the kids would be walking home.

I AM IN DISTRESS!! Please, guide me. I want to catch this now before my son is labeled. My son is naturally a quiet boy, and skinny and doesn't really yell or scream like other kids. According to his teacher he is "too soft" AARRRRRRRRGGGGGGGGG!!

Help.

voice_of_reason wrote:All these people saying let him stand up for himself and be brave are idiots. I know a kid who I grew up with, went through the same thing your kid did at the same age, cept there was a gang of em giving it to this boy. Eventually he did "stand up for himself and be brave" after a couple of years. And he got expelled from school for it. Now has terrible anger problems, has a criminal record, was a heavy drug abuser for several years, can't make proper relationships, can't hold down jobs and to be honest, if I hadn't been friends with him for such a long time, I probably wouldn't like him at all! Very few other people do.

Best thing to do if this is happening to your kid is, MOVE YOUR KID SOMEWHERE ELSE. And enrol him in a martial arts school to give him his confidence back. If it was me, I would teach him how to get his own back on the bully with a couple of moves but if you don't know how... it's not -as- important as getting the kid out of there. ASAP. They are old enough to understand what being pissed on is all about. Both the one doing it and the one getting pissed on. This kind of $#%^ ruins children.

Trust me.

If you ever come back let me know how your son is getting on.