im a bully

i am a bully. i just started admiting it this year. but i feel like i need help, i dont even know why i do this. here is what i do. i just love annoying kids at my school, and i will keep doing things to annoy them on purpose because for some reason it makes me laugh even if nobody else is laughing. like, i made fun of a kids last name. his last name is Ramen, and all year I have been calling him Ramen Noodles, even though it is clear that he hates it and nobody else thinks its funny, i keep doing it and i still laugh. there is something wrong with me! help, im an evil bully!

Which issue is more worse for you: Being bullied or being the bully? Both must stop. I replied to your 'bullied' thread.


Kevster

Just stop.

Most people would describe me as nice.

My friends would describe me as "cold", "unemotional", and truthful to the point of not giving a crap about what you feel.

On the outside, you wouldn't have a damned clue, but I can be very violent.

God forbid I would get into a fight with a bully. Senior, sophmore, junior, doesn't matter. There is a good chance they would wind up seriously injured, possibly with permanent damage, and several broke bones.

God forbid you pick on a kid like me and give him an excuse to hurt you.

That is generally what I put myself in position to do when I am being bullied. Give me an excuse to hurt you, so I can.

Nonetheless, I suggest you stop before you meet a kid like me.

(And btw, I'm atheist, so the god part was a figure of speech)

...you never know who you might be dealing with.

get reactions out of people in a nicer way.

Hmm....not as evil as most bullies are. Taking people's stuff to annoy them, it can be viewed as just someone annoying them, doesn't have to always be exactly hurtful. The last name thing, are they brushing it off? Well, I'm sure you have the power to stop, even if theres something up here with you. =)

It seems GummyFeet you are not taking this seriously. If this is a problem for you, seek psychological help. It seems to me you came here, looking to be told that your bullying isn't all that bad, well sorry it is. Laughing at the pain of another person shows a serious lack of empathy and conscience. In other words, most normal people, don't get a rise out of hurting others. I'd suggest you seek help in finding out why you do this, but please don't return with another giggle about how you found a new way to hurt someone else.

Maybe you're bored and need stimulation. Some people have trouble delaying gratification and focusing on more acceptable types of fun.

By teasing other people, you do something that
1 requires no planning at all
2 gets immediate results
3 does not require much effort or time to finish

You seem impulsive and easily bored. Look at your behaviors in other aspects of your life to see if this is part of a pattern.
Do you spend money as soon as you have it?
Do you find risky / dangerous activities to be the most fun?
Are you an underachiever on school assignments?
Do you stop doing domestic chores halfway through?
Do you hate reading long stories?
Is it hard for you to make and follow long-term plans?
Have people told you you are impatient?
Do people often ask you why you did something?
Do people accuse you of not listening to them?
Do you need to be reminded to wait your turn?
If you're waiting for more than a minute, do you whine?

You should stop what you're doing Gummy! It's mean.

You're going to hurt Ramen if you keep it up.