by Ada » Sat Nov 24, 2012 5:22 pm
I don't think the way you look comes into this. "B*tch" is a common abusive term for women. It doesn't relate to anything directly about you. He'd use the same language about any woman in this situation. I know it's not much of a compliment to have had him admire you in the first place, but perhaps that's the only good thing here? He originally liked you, so that's positive about the way you were looking that day. He's backed down from that position for some reason since [peer pressure, guilt because he has a girlfriend already, an external traumatic event which means he isn't bothering to be polite to anyone.] Seems like a guy you wouldn't want to be with anyway. Definitely not someone to listen to. And nothing to do with the way you look.
“We think too much and feel too little.
More than machinery, we need humanity.
More than cleverness, we need kindness and gentleness.”
Charlie Chaplain in The Great Dictator