Everyone woman I fall for ends up changing their number

, i hope that didn't offend you...i'm just going based off what you've shared here. if these statements were made (by her):

You're annoying. Leave me alone

I am done. I tried to be your friend

[She] went ahead and blocked me on Instagram (i was already blocked on FB for a month at this point)

I am going to a lawyer if you don't stop blowing up my phone

then I, ME PERSONALLY, would have issue with you showing up to my place of work regardless if your best friend works there or not. you may not be stalking her derp, but in this situation it doesn't matter what you think, it matters what SHE thinks. you don't want or deserve more:

threats of a restraining order

i'm glad you were able to have a good time. can't say i'd be able to do the same, so

Those first 3 quotes were just irrational on her part. The first one was her being mean the night after she put me on the guest list and the night before I helped her around the house. The 2nd quote didn't make any sense why she cannot explain what happened and she was cutting me out again. The third quote came after she said she was done and she was seeing someone else. I told her it's fine and I've had my share of partners in between too. I am guessing this is why she blocked me. Maybe she blocked me because she wanted to erase me from her life and it's easier to do so if I am out of sight out of mind. Quite frankly, she is immature about all of this.


I blew up her phone days after and thats when the threats came until we exchanged each others possessions and I haven't heard from her since. My best friend is a mutual friend of ours and we know the same people. She knows me and I don't think she'd go as far as acting looney on her part.

She cannot forbid me from hanging out with my friends or friends we may know as well at places I want. It's a night club\lounge and happens to be a popular spot and it's close to where we all live. I simply cannot late her dictate where I can or cannot go. This weekend for example I have been invited to a birthday party by this girl I am casually hooking up with. She is having her party at that same spot. I will go there and I will be surrounded by lot's of beautiful women. I'd like her to see that, but again I am not there to talk to her and I will be there to hangoug with this girl and her friends.

Non of her behavior made sense to me. Overnight she is like a light switch turned away from me for no reason. Maybe I was a bit overbearing and giving her to much attention as we started talking again and I setup her place from scratch all by myself. But there could've been a nice way to handle this situation on her part instead of saying I am annoying the next day and telling me I am not going to be able to contact her again. My friends told me maybe she is bi-polar. I don't know. I know she is socially awkward and has no friends. Which was always odd to me since she is this bartender\go-go dancer and knows everyone in the city but doesn't hangout with anyone. When I inquired why she was being awkard when her and I would go out and our friends were out, she told me something that I couldn't digest. She was a victim of molestation as a child by neighbour and then she said she was raped in her young adulthood.

I don't know if there is any truth to any of that. I have no reason not to believe her, but I suspect that these incidences caused her some deep psychological damage as well. Which could be why she acts the way that she had towards me. I mean she let me back in her life, let me be there for her, let me help her move-in, build her bed, kitchen table, hang her drapes. We went and bought her furniture. We had lunches, ice cream, and dinner. All this during the two weeks. Then overnight she just flipped on me and said I was annoying her and that she was done with me. This was like a shot to the heart.