NPD and BPD

So from what I understand the main difference is that the borderlines failed to cope and build proper defense mechanisms and therefore suffers deeply inside while the narcissist built proper and reliable self defense-mechanisms but suffers the same abondonment issues.

Its quite a mind paradox because the N has the B "pathological child" but different mechanisms surrounding such well, I don't really know you get the idea i'm no psychologist lol.

So who 'wins' at the dating game, the narcissist or the borderline?

Mirrors wrote:while the narcissist built proper and reliable self defense-mechanisms

proper and reliable... must be a joke...

Mirrors wrote:I don't really know you get the idea i'm no psychologist lol.

OK, explained.

Mirrors wrote:So who 'wins' at the dating game, the narcissist or the borderline?

Normal wins all "games"... that is what the theory of evolution, formalized by Charles Darwin, says.

I heard the term "the other side of the mirror" which described BPD in relation to NPD.

Mirrors, I'm not even sure of what you're really getting at here. I have seen enough of your trolling of the BPD boards to know that this is not a serious post.

Therefore, this will be a locked thread.


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