Anyone got any good articles to help explain BPD to loved ones?
I have a really close friend who has recently been the target of my extreme devaluation and manipulation, and I want to try and find a good explanation that covers how we feel about abandonment, the absolute torment we go through when we endure it, and what it is like to devaluate and manipulate and why we do it, and that we can't help it. I've looked through the resources and don't seem to be able to find anything quite like this, to try and get a non to understand what goes through our minds, how, and why.
Any other good articles on BPD I am grateful for too.
Kaz x