Resources available for possible BPD seeking help?

I am extremely new to this forum, and I appreciate it's existence. It has given me a great amount of resources and useful information, which has been very beneficial in helping me guide through this path of breaking my codependency issues and taking back my life....so to speak.

Through lots of research and intense therapy sessions, I have learned that it is quite possible my husband may have BPD (and I understand no official diagnosis has been made). I have definetly had that "AHAA!" moment. However, here is where the problem arises. I am learning, even though it is extremely difficult, that I cannot be responsible for his actions any longer. My sole priority right now, other than my son, is learning who I am, what I want, and what I am willing and not willing to tolerate. My husband, I believe, has reached a breaking point. He is completely falling apart, and seeking help. He has no money, no insurance, and he has no available family to help. He has spent all morning on the phone with crisis helplines, trying to find someone to talk to. He is meeting with someone at a church later this afternoon. I guess, I am wondering, if anyone knows of any other resources available, so that I might be able to point him in the right direction. I am hopeful that he is taking the initiative, however, I don't want it to be a lost effort. Any advice would be much appreciated. We live in Houston, TX, if that helps any. Thank you.

Pinkylove, I'm sorry no one has given you the information you need yet. Has your ex ever been abused? Maybe if some of his problems come from that, there might be crisis centers for abuse victims who'd help him.