I can't take this paranoia anymore.

I'm sick of thinking everyone doesn't like me.
I'm sick of thinking everyone thinks that I'm ugly and fat.
This must sound ridiculous but when I walk into a club or something, dressed to the nines and nobody comes up to me, smiles at me, even makes eye contact with me, I feel as if everyone hates me. I feel like a fat, ugly sack of crap.
I feel as if people are always staring at me, laughing. I always feel like such a weirdo.


Sorry I needed to ramble.

Dirty_business, ramble away, it's good to vent. Maybe people just feel a bit intimidated by the thought of coming up to someone.

That would make for a good pick up line. "You are not a fat, ugly sack of crap. You may be smart, but I won't hold that against you "

I'm going to try it. And for the record, to your post, no way!

Hi Dirty Business...

I didn't realize it a long time ago, but later on getting to know people, I was told that perhaps the answer to your problem is, perhaps if you are that attractive that you could be intimidating like the other one said on here. I never thought of myself as intimidating, but guys especially might be afraid to approach women who look good or "out of their league" so to speak. I think women tend to do the same to guys that look good too. Just the thought of rejection for some can cause one to not even approach someone like that.

Just a thought.

Just for the record guys, I know I'm being irrational but I can't seem to stop the thoughts going on in my head..

Is there anything that usually helps with your self confidence?