Safety warning to fellow borderline women on the forum

To fellow borderlines, there is a male member on this forum who targets borderline women. He finds our emotional pain and anguish exciting and likes to masturbate over it. I learned this the hard way in private messaging. I don't want any other women to have to put up with this predation. Be careful if a forum member private messages you *mod edit*.

Sorry you've had to go through that. Make sure you report it to the mods. And thanks for the heads up.

I'm sorry you've been through this too.

I have edited part the original post as it could pose a safety issue for OrbweaverLeads. Thankyou for bringing it to our attention. I've also sent you a PM.

Please report any PM that makes you uncomfortable by clicking on the ! symbol in the upside down triangle at the top of the post in question. PM reports are treated confidentially by the mod team and the person the PM being reported belongs to is not notified that the PM has been reported. Only mods can see it and it's one of the things we check first when we log on. Anyone caught using the PM system inappropriately will be dealt with swiftly.

You are also welcome to PM a mod directly about it.

Am locking this thread for now.

Many Thanks
Lily

Agreed. Rather than posting in forum, please report via the Report feature.