After having almost a full day to process this and research it...Well, I am here now. I had heard of BPD before but never really looked into it. After struggling with depression and anxiety most of my life, I just thought that the meds and therapies that never worked just indicated that I was beyond hope. But after having another relationship follow the SAME pattern that they always do, I sought out therapy again. That's when it finally clicked for the new therapist to ask me questions than I had never been asked before and linked all my general f**ked-uped-ness to BPD.
I cried myself to sleep last night thinking I had been given a life sentence. This morning, I woke up a little hopeful. I mean, at least now after 36 years I actually know what's wrong with me and maybe there is some chance for me to change.
So, I was recommended to a different therapist/program that specializes in DBT. It's a year long program. Is that common?
ANYWAY, I am hoping I can poke around here and come here on days when I just can't take it anymore. I am in a relationship right now that is being ruined again by this **** and I really don't want to lose her (god, I am just even so frightened of tell her about this!). But that is a whole 'nother thread.