Is constant cheating a BPD trait?

by **Journeyman15** » Mon Nov 09, 2015 10:36 pm

abacaxi84 wrote:@spiderminder it's interesting that you managed to change as I've basically hit the point of feeling that I eitherb need to negotiate some sort of open relationship with my partner, or (most likely scenario as I can't see him agreeing to it) we break up. I can't see how I am ever not going to be tempted. It's a crap situation, as he and I are compatible in so many other respects, but if he needs a 100% sexually monogamous partner, that's never going to be me.

That's a cool shout abacaxi84.

I so admire self-awareness. It sounds like you know yourself well. That takes courage.

Hope you manage to find something that works for you.

Although I experience wandering eyes a lot and feel the temptation the guilt even when presented with an easy opportunity is too much for me and I always back out. Kind of hypocritical because that's the kind of thing I distrust my partners about the most, maybe that's why I feel so bad about it, because I relate what I feel to how they 'must' feel. If I get wandering eyes so must they

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