jaus tail wrote:bpd causes depression so you eat less, stay at home, lie on the couch, no exercise, no food, so back aches.
eat more, force yourself to eat healthy food. i had three and a half ice creams last month and did push ups.
let the nurturing parent take over. look after yourself. eat more, fruits, juices, do exercise, walks, yoga, whatever, just work out and eat more. it helps.
take care..
Thank you jaus
This is great advice!!!
I am going to start today, eating better and getting more exercise.
Huge hugs!!!!
-- Sun Nov 17, 2013 8:31 am --
noreally_imfine wrote:I HAVE CHRONIC NECK & SHOULDER PAIN!
you're in your twenties too, right? Yeah, I'm only 25! I don't know if it has anything to do with BPD or not though. I've had it now for 2 years. I think its because of the repetition of my job. I feel very stiff. It has made my depression MUCH MUCH worse.
Around the time I got this, i was working out moderately, and had been on antidepressants for a year.
I don't know what went wrong, all I can think of is the that its the job.
I posted a similar question to this on this board and didn't get anyone really answering it.
Have you talked to your doc or tried physical therapy?
No type of treatment has helped me yet. Doctors are saying its chronic muscle spasms.
Thank you for replying!
I'm glad I'm not the only one. It sucks huh? I hate it.
I'm a little older than you but mine starting in my early 30s. It also started while I was working full time and I think a lot of it was the stress from the job. I went to the doctor but they just wanted to give me muscle relaxants. I didn't take them because I don't believe in taking medicine unless its really necessary.
I think mine is caused by muscle spasms too. When I massage my shoulders they feel really stiff and tight.

I'm working on stretching my neck because it also feels stiff.
It gets worse whenever I'm stressed out. I don't know what to do about it. I think some people carry stress and tension in different areas of the body. I guess we carry it in our neck and shoulders. Maybe we need to learn how to relax, and also do what jaus said, get exercise and eat more fruits and juices etc.