borderline times

reading a book with that title
it starts with saying that the time we live in the way we learn relationships right now (devorce rate is nearly 50%) the stress of having to work and social norms ppl want to live by is making everyone a little more borderline.
and borderline is becoming more the norm than "normal"
do you think this is true?
and how?

I have fought with two of my best friends because of borderline personality disorder. while i know they have forgiven me, i wish to hell it hadn't happened. i would never want to fake any disorder, but then again why do we call it disorder..it's just a difference that's it...some have blue eyes, some have different thought process and some have green eyes