Being called "eww" by young female strangers

Just the other month I was walking out of this shop, stood still to check my phone and there were two girls about 18/19 who walked past me and I overheard one say "ewwww". I wasn't even oggling them. Whilst they were walking ahead of me, one of them turned around looked at me and then said something to her friend (the one that said ewww). Suddenly both of them kept turning their heads and laughing before walking really fast, as though to get away from me. They crossed over the road and I eventually went ahead on the ottherside. I then heard one of them say really loudly "OMG and that hair" (I have a small bald patch on the back of my head). I then stopped turned around, stared them right into the eye across the street and said "What!". They said "omg psycho" and started to run.

Things like this have happened at least well over 100 times in my life. The worst time was when I worked in a supermarket at 20 and this attractive 17yo girl working there said "eww...him..no way!" when she was with a colleague. I had never even spoken to her before (she was from another department) and that incident left me devastated.

I'm 37 and its been happening since I was 13 or so. I have never had a girlfriend in my life, so that only heightens my fears that every nice or average looking woman thinks I'm ugly. I don't know how to deal with it. I've never had this treatment in other countries. I don't have BDD, it is not imaginary.

I don't know what the hell is wrong with young British women. Why do girls do this? Can girls answer? Literally no concern for others feelings and just spout $#%^ in your face, like they have license to. I'm surprised I haven't lashed out or attacked to be honest. I'm tired of being bullied like this, oneday I will snap and there will be a dossier left in my house to explain everything.

I understand that you getting upser and angry about it. It happened to me a couple of times, especially during nights out. It's the worst thing that can happen to me. It's definately not invented or some misconception .


it's just that some girls find me ugly. I can't help it, just live with it. Well, actually i don't want to ljve with it. I'm going to do something about it with plastic surgery cause i'm tired of it. Life is so much easier when you just look good.

Sorry to hear that dude. you should defend yourself though, nobody sensible would look down on you or anything for "lashing out" in a situation like that. Youre probably a pretty nice guy and well-intentioned in general if you havent attacked back as you say yet, because that'd be a lot to take; you should be more assertive man, you dont deserve that kind of treatment. I wish i had some real advice to offer, but just dont pen up that frustration and let it fester though, thats never healthy, put it to something constructive, find a way to build your confidence.