Devanna, In my experience with Depakote, I stayed in a haze mentally at 2000mgs a day. It also caused more side effects than I had time for... such as high levels of anxiety and panic attacks were worse, as well as depression was worse. More than likely, the dosage that your hubby is on is too high, and he is experiencing sedative effects now.... which is what I did.Taking too much is about as bad as taking too little... it only adds to the problems.
At the moment, I have been taking Risperdal (a mood stabilizer) which has pretty much put on a lid on any full blown manic episodes for me. Altho, I am dealing with some depression... whereas before depression was not the real issue for me as much as manic was. Today, my doctor placed me on a low dose of Wellbutrin, which I begin taking in the AM. Among other reasons, more importantly because I am picking up some side effects from the Risperdal that I dont need... yet the dosage of Riserdal I am taking is what works for me. Will keep you posted on how it turns out!
In my experience, and from information my hubby and I have gathered from people that we know who works at the local State hospital in dealing with patients that need hospitialization in order to get the meds and dosages right in treating their Bipolar, the first and foremost thing that is important is finding a proper mood stabilizer in treating Bipolar. We found out first hand that starting off with an antidepressant is not the way to go. Antidepressants tend to make us feel better and get us out of the depressed state. They provide energy and make us feel like we are up to functioning. Antidepressants are not capable of stiffling the manics of Bipolar. In Bipolar, if treated with only an antidepressant... that energy adds to the mania and makes it worse. It is not possible to treat bipolar with an antidepressant alone..and not wise in my opinion to begin treating someone with Bipolar on an anitdepressant alone. I was placed on Effexor alone in the beginning, and I reached highs and rages that I never experienced before due to the effect of the Effexor. I read somewhere a story on this... and the punchline was "Give someone with Bipolar and antidepressant and watch them flip". That is just about what it will/does do too.
Some Bipolars do not necessarily NEED antidepressants. Sometimes just the mood stabilizer in itself will knock off a great portion of that edge. But antidepressants are definately an option once the mania is under control. As for myself, its the last piece of the puzzle in finding that happy medium.
Wellbutrin is one of the antidepressants that work well for most with Bipolar in that it doesnt focus on Serotonin... which is the chemical that causes mania. This is the reason that my pdoc chose this for me to try because I am very sensitive to antidepressants. We are hoping that once I begin taking it, that it will hold true to its reputation lol
anyway... hope that this has been of some help to you!
I dont mean to break in on your post, sincefour!!
~kimmy