by bluemoon » Wed Dec 07, 2005 5:37 pm
The 2 weeks rule for depression is key.
I started to become depressed from a minor school situation and I noticed myself snowballing. When I had consecutive breakdown-s and fits of damaging my room etc., I knew I had to get help. I was consistently depressed, lethargic, and I did now know what to do.
Bipolar disorder has similar traits to other illnesses and so recognizing it specially can be difficult. For instantce, for young children, BPD is often misdiagnosed for ADHD. Not only that, it can take years for someone to acknowledge and realize that something is wrong with them - whether it be mental illness or any other situation.
My family noticed my fits and my severe depression and mostly, they attributed to stress (culture). I only live with my parents and mostly, I've been alone often at home. It was difficult for anyone to notice anything. However, some of my classmates and teachers noticed my consistent depression and apathy which was in direct contrast to my overachievery attitude prior to the onset and progression of my illness.
Recognizing bipolar disorder is an observation made by others and oneself. However, I think the former is easier because it is more objective if the people who are noticing it are close to you and know you well. I was hesitant about seeking help because I did not want to cause a ruckus.
If people suspect that they have it, by all means, please seek help. BPD is an easily treatable medical condition and there is no reason whatsoever that someone should have to endure this illness. There is no shame in seeking help and it is OKAY if, in the end, there is no label. If you need help for whatever reason, SEEK IT.