Hey, this is my first post in this forum, but I'm just going to go ahead and jump right in.
So I'm bipolar type 1 (rapid cycling, I'm pretty sure), and recently I've been feeling extreme derealization. Other than feeling moderately depressed, I'm not having any sort of real episode, but the world around me and the people in it just seem so far away when they're right in front of me. Most people talk to me and I can only pretend to connect to what they're saying, when in reality it makes no sense to me and I'll most likely forget what was said as soon as the conversation is over. When people talk to me for more than a few minutes, I can feel myself slipping away from the conversation, and suddenly i'm just watching them talk at me like i'm in an underwater tunnel. With friends that I'm really comfortable with, sometimes I'll literally tell them, "Please, stop talking to me. I can't comprehend or connect with what you're saying and it exhausts me to pretend like I do," and the friends who know me and my disorder well understand and don't mind. But with most people, I have to just sit there and act like human interaction makes sense to me, when it doesn't.
I feel as if I'm an alien, inhabiting a foreign human body on this foreign planet, forced to blend in by feigning genuine connection. I see people around me connecting to others easily but I just cant seem to get it. I was at a party last night, and for the first couple hours all was (mostly) well. But the louder, crazier, and drunker the party became, the more painfully aware I was that I couldn't connect and have fun with all of these people the way they did with each other. I began to retreat, and by the end of the party all of my friends were annoyed with me for being so antisocial, but how was I supposed to explain to them that being at that party was like being dropped into a black and white silent film that I didn't belong in?
Some people stand out amidst all of the haze, like lights in fog with varying amounts brightness. People that I, for whatever reason, feel more connected to than most. Sometimes I like to think of them as aliens from my planet as well, inhabiting human bodies, and that's why I can connect with them more easily. But even then, it's been so long since I genuinely connected with someone that whenever the possibility of it rises, I retreat.
I'm sorry this is so long, but has anyone else ever felt this way? It makes me feel like I'll never have a real friendship, never have a real relationship, ever again, and that makes me really hopeless.
P.S. For the record, I am prescribed Lamictal, but I don't take it (surprise, surprise (classic bipolar lmao)). So essentially I'm unmedicated right now. No, I will probably not start taking medication again any time soon.