by skilsaw » Wed Apr 01, 2015 6:01 pm
All I can speak to is the Mood Disorder Support Group that I attend.
New people are acknowledged and welcomed but they are clearly told they are free to share as much or as little as they like. Or, they can just pass when it is their turn to speak. We try to make it as comfortable as possible.
New people usually just introduce themselves then pass on to the next person. Or, on a first visit, new people are totally overcome with their current crisis and the floodgates open up. We give them as much time as they need.
Every group is different. Even two groups in the same organization can be very different because of the personalities involved. I'm very glad to have found a group where I fit in and am unconditionally accepted.
I encourage you to give groups a try. If one doesn't work for you, try another.
I hope it works out for you, as it has for me.
Take care,
It is not always possible to make someone's discomfort go away.
Sometimes, the best thing we can do is resist the urge to fix it and instead just say, "You, too?"