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by biancayagger » Sat Jan 03, 2015 7:07 pm
this isnt a conversation about social norms about how a woman should present herself OR what is appropriate behavior. you seem to be of a more conservative type. some people think women should be in burkas or that shorts are slutty looking
but i'll answer one question for you. if it's hot outside, as in the temperature is warm, i will wear tank tops and shorts. children wear tank tops and shorts, and it's not considered to be sexual so why should grown women cover themselves? because men can't handle it?
that could be considered sexual. in my opinion it is not. it differs in different societies. i grew up in a very liberal environment. my body is for me to choose to do whhat i want to with. or to show or not show.
iit is not a request for salacious come ons. that's ridiculous.
please dont respond to this thread, i wasn't asking opinions on social norms but on my guilt according to MY OWN standards of conduct and sexuality, not anyone elses.
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by Oliveira » Sat Jan 03, 2015 8:21 pm

I think both of you missed each other's point. How I understand skilsaw's post is that he didn't get the connection between high temperature outside and eye shadow, missing the bit about tank tops. Am I correct skilsaw?
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by skilsaw » Sun Jan 04, 2015 5:13 am
Oliveira wrote::)
I think both of you missed each other's point. How I understand skilsaw's post is that he didn't get the connection between high temperature outside and eye shadow, missing the bit about tank tops. Am I correct skilsaw?
Oliveira understood what I was trying to say.
Sorry to have missed the connection between it being hot outside and wearing tank tops.
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by biancayagger » Mon Jan 05, 2015 4:10 am
skilsaw wrote:Oliveira wrote::)
I think both of you missed each other's point. How I understand skilsaw's post is that he didn't get the connection between high temperature outside and eye shadow, missing the bit about tank tops. Am I correct skilsaw?
Oliveira understood what I was trying to say.
Sorry to have missed the connection between it being hot outside and wearing tank tops.
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