Intro & Situation

Hi ,

I'm Mazzy, 38 married I have two boys 10 and 8. They both are Bi-Polar and ADHD. My oldest son is very very very hard to manage and my youngest son is depressed 80 to 90% of the time. My oldest is overbearing, argumentative, demanding, time consuming, aggressive, defiant, and honestly has his brother and I just emotionally drained. The youngest just gives in and does or lets him have his way and I besides just about resorting to the same are an emotional wrek. I cry all the time and argue all the time untill I cant anymore. I dont know what to do but I feel like my life is falling apart and my youngest son is slipping away. Any advice please.

Mazzy