Help from experienced Dom/sub

Hi I need help plz I always been interested in bdsm but not sure how to get in to it with my bf I talk a lil about it as I would love to submit to him n have him Dominate me but not sure how to submit to him n how I should act n feel when he dose n how to please him the most but I also think he a lil scared of hurting me to much but I told him I'm not scared of lil pain as I have high pain fresh hold but also the idea of him hit or spanking me make me feel existed inside but not sure on how to act to let him know I'm ready n how to start of this sort of lifestyle plz if anyone can help I love it from both Dom/sub

There's no one way or right way to go about it. I'd be wary of anyone who tells you how you should have sex or how you should be submissive or dominant.

I'd start by talking to each other about your fantasies and ideas, and trying out different activities that you both feel comfortable with. This webpage has a list of scenarios to spark your imagination, and aside from the top banner it doesn't have any porn images. There are lots more BDSM resources online, whether you're looking for techniques, safety tips, or other people to shares ideas with. Have fun experimenting!