chastity belt

Has anyone wore one? I was with a man and wanted him to have a key to my belt to prove my devotion.
I wanted to belong to just him.

Don't know how you go to the bathroom with one.LOL

I am male and I would like to be locked. Chastity belts are my big fetish. I've tried some one of the male devices, but not really the belt style device. And I can get orgasm in that. Still it can be arousing, but I want to be completely unable to make myself cum without a key. I really find the idea of having my orgasms controlled by someone else arousing.

Interesting idea, and nod to centuies past. Modern part of me says if relations lack trust their doomed, but the reptilian part of my brain says, "That's a great idea!"

It is kind of a joke. I knew someone who was overly jealous. I suggested I could get one. Trust can be hard when you have been hurt before.

I'm not a 'trust can be repaired' type. Think once trust is betrayed that's it. As to jealous types, it's really that they're insecure. Or they're obsessive and imagining hypotheticals and losing you. Dunno what the solution to that is, had a lover last summer who set off every red flag I had and some I didn't even know I did. I just ended things abruptly. Felt bad about it, but sometimes people are just broken and it's not a good idea to try to fix them because more likely you're only exaccerbating issues you know about and others you don't. People who obsess are perceiving and thinking delusionally. But our solutions to try and help are coming from non-delusional minds so there's a fundamental incomptibility from the start. Like trying to run Mac software on an IBM.

It's nice to display a little harmless jealousy I think, shows value to the person, but if it's something that starts registering in your mind as too-much it's time to either cut them loose or if married get counselling.

He is already gone.

He pops up from time to time.

It is hard because i don't like to be controlled, and jealousy really is about control.