Why do I push people away

hello everyone. I'm new here. i actually feel everything that have been said.. i feel like that could've been me saying all those things.
i recently broke up with someone. I pushed them away.

im desperate for help. how have u guys been coping with everything?

Hi JK, from a fellow jk -

I'm sort of new myself, and I do have AvPD. I noticed this thread is interesting but kind of old. Feel free to say more about what happened, as much as you are comfortable.

I've done this exact thing in the past, for the same reasons people were discussing in the first page here. And funny thing I'm in a situation that might require me to make sure I don't do it again, so currently working on ways to make sure I don't do it again..

Coping's difficult, as everyone here will agree, and for me at least it's a new battle every day.