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Re: Do you feel like you can read people a lot better?

Postby NooniLollipop » Wed Jan 26, 2011 10:49 pm

Pselaphan wrote:I am very adept at spotting both what a person is trying to convey they are feeling and what they are actually feeling, along with a personality type and a general sense of morals. Hightened interpersonal sensitivity isn't always a bad thing.

Anyone else have a problem with memory? I have difficulty remembering what I was doing yesterday a lot of the time because I live so deeply within my head rather than the events occurring around me. Also even if I only see or marginally interact with a person for 5 minutes I'll remember them, their mannerisms, where I met them, their personality type, along with a bunch of other information. Memory will last years, and even if its been years I will at least recognize the face (but it's so difficult to remember the names! I just remember the person as an emotional entity.)


I do have the same memory problem... I am always forgetting because I am drugged with my thoughts, I can't remember things right away if I wasn't paying a 100% of attention which I rarely do, most of the time when I try to remember something is harder if I am in a point when my own thoughts keep distracting me, as if I had traffic in my mind or the download file is taking a long time because you are downloading a bunch of other stuff at the same time.

I do remember clearly what people say to me most of the time, I save their information because I am extremely careful around them, not only what I say but also what they say and their expressions and actions and so, I know when they ask me the same thing twice or they tell me the same story twice, some times people themselves forget what they told me and then ignore how I know what I know about them.

So, its weird... If I was focus I remember if I don't... the memory was either deleted or is taking a whole lot of time to fully come back.
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Re: Do you feel like you can read people a lot better?

Postby raginmund » Thu Jan 27, 2011 5:53 am

I don't have problems remembering people's names.
I usually have a good memory actually.......
But I do have a much more difficult time reading women, especially when they are a bit flirtatious towards me.
One could say that's normal for most guys....... but I feel like it does have more of an effect on me.
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