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by crabtree123 » Sat Oct 02, 2010 11:57 am
What's the longest amount of time you've cut yourself off from others?
I've gone upwards of 7+ months without socializing to anyone other than my immediate family. Crazy but true.
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by Dismay » Sat Oct 02, 2010 4:38 pm
You're definitely not alone here. I myself am going on 6 months with no human contact other than my mother. I'm starting to lose my sense of reality which is scaring me to say the least. I hope this in turn does not cause other underlying conditions to come forth.
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by thepain » Sat Oct 02, 2010 7:55 pm
29 yrs, i win.
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by crabtree123 » Sun Oct 03, 2010 12:14 am
I figured I wouldn't be alone here.
I've been a shut-in for about six years now. I don't know how to stop living this way. I used to live a completely opposite lifestyle.
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by undying shadow » Sun Oct 03, 2010 3:42 am
Hi Chair, I'm Jackal on Hikiculture. /wave
I spent about four years cut off from others outside immediate family. It almost drove me to madness, so I had to stop that. I have been partially successful in that by going to a community college. I also had a job once for three months, and another for five months, with very long gaps between. I'm currently unemployed. *shrug*
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by face » Sun Oct 03, 2010 5:46 am
3 months was the longest time for me. probably one of the happiest 3 months in the last 10 years actually, and by that i mean the least sad. if i had a choice it would probably have been a lot longer. that thought is kinda depressing. when i went back to socialising my waters became very troubled as it were, and i sometimes find myself wanting to withdraw again. although i know that at first, the loneliness would be acute, i still miss the eventual serenity of solitude.
but yeah it seems 3 months is the shortest time here. i'm still a rookie i guess.
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by gwilly » Sun Oct 03, 2010 6:40 am
It's been about 10 years and still counting. Of cutting them off from me. And I don't consider it a bad thing, either.
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by Darkrun » Sun Oct 03, 2010 11:04 am
Only about 6-7 months for me. Need to try harder it would seem
Constant dripping hollows out the stone. Lucretius
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by Ecco » Mon Oct 04, 2010 12:03 am
I guess it would be the year and a half I spent living by myself. Some weekends would go by without me speaking at all to anyone.
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by Protectron » Sun Oct 17, 2010 3:44 pm
I never kept track, but when I was in university or unemployed, I used to go months at a time without talking to anyone... from '03 to '07 I used to do this every year, but couldn't for very long. I often made myself sick with anxiety or depression after such a period and had to go live with my parents for some time, to get some small re-adjustment.
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