Chucky wrote:Is weight gain the only problem? If so, then you should indeed talk it over with the doctor, as that could lead to another psychological problem (if you care about yuor weight, putting weight on will counteract any positive effect the drug gives you). I took a drug called Lexapro which caused no weight gain.
Kevin
Nearly all the antidepressants have weight gain as a common side effect, but each brand effects different people differently. Chucky says Lexapro worked for him. But for me...oh man! Lexapro inflicted so much weight gain that I went into crisis! There are very few things in life I can control, but my weight has always been one of them. Suddenly I had no control over my weight at all. My fear reached existential proportions. When my doctor let me go off Lexapro, it took me two years to get my weight back down to a level I could live with. 4 months to put it on--2 years to get it off.
Paxil is the only antidepressant I've taken long term, but because of the weight-gain fears I take only half my doctor's prescribed dose. On the upside, Paxil holds back the volcanic anxiety attacks that plagued me for decades. On the downside, I find myself unable to cry--neither in sad movies nor at the funeral of someone close to me. Strong emotions were always important to me--sort of a barometer for my soul--and now that barometer is out of order.
And, like Nevergive_up said, they're not miracle pills. They don't solve anything. In my case I was better able to face my regular day, but still every bit as afraid of taking new risks and "getting ahead in life" as I've always been. In theory Paxil might make me less nervous, say, on a date. But it doesn't make me WANT to go on a date. It might make you less nervous to take steps in pursuing a dream. But you still have to HAVE a dream in the first place.
The one drug I truly feel is a freakin'
godsend is Ativan (lorazepam, a valium cousin). I sleep. Me! Sleep! I didn't even know sleeping 5 or 6 hours straight was humanly possible until I was prescribed this! I take it at night, about 4 times a week, and it helps with sleep, anxiety, my neck pain, menstrual cramps, etc. All the benzodiazepines get a bad rap due to their addictive properties. But there are people out there who can be responsible with it. Yes, I have to take nearly double the dose I started with 5 years ago. But there are so many benefits I don't want to give it up. This in itself creates guilt.