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Re: What do you really value in a person?

Postby grits_n_sweettea » Tue Sep 01, 2009 3:08 am

Loyalty, wits, and kind-heartedness.
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Re: What do you really value in a person?

Postby Parador » Tue Sep 01, 2009 9:53 pm

grits_n_sweettea wrote:Loyalty, wits, and kind-heartedness.


Discriminating against the witless, eh?
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Re: What do you really value in a person?

Postby Beta-Man » Fri Sep 04, 2009 8:05 pm

I value people who aren't very judgemental(I'd bring enough of that to a friendship...) and are caring as well.
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Re: What do you really value in a person?

Postby twistermind » Sat Sep 05, 2009 1:15 am

The same as Beta Man. Sensibility. This is one of the most important things.
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Re: What do you really value in a person?

Postby ShadowTerra » Sat Sep 05, 2009 10:58 pm

Kindness
Sense of humor
Similar interests, or at least doesn't laugh at my interests
Intellectual curiosity
Patience
You may say I'm a fool
Feelin' the way that I do
You can call me Pollyanna
Say I'm crazy as a loon
I believe in silver linings
And that's why I believe in you
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Re: What do you really value in a person?

Postby Parador » Sun Sep 06, 2009 8:48 pm

ShadowTerra wrote:Kindness
Sense of humor
Similar interests, or at least doesn't laugh at my interests
Intellectual curiosity
Patience


Sense of humor can be a sticking point with me. I was joking with a gal on PoF anout putting frozen bodies through wood chippers the other day. yuk yuk. And when I say I'm preparing for a zombie apocolypse some people look at me kinda funny.
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Re: What do you really value in a person?

Postby ShadowTerra » Mon Sep 07, 2009 9:10 pm

Parador wrote:
ShadowTerra wrote:Kindness
Sense of humor
Similar interests, or at least doesn't laugh at my interests
Intellectual curiosity
Patience


Sense of humor can be a sticking point with me. I was joking with a gal on PoF anout putting frozen bodies through wood chippers the other day. yuk yuk. And when I say I'm preparing for a zombie apocolypse some people look at me kinda funny.

Tell me about it. I have a very crass, morbid sense of humor so I feel your pain.
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Re: What do you really value in a person?

Postby Parador » Tue Sep 08, 2009 7:46 pm

So if you had a bf and he was dead from a zombie bite would you:

a) put his body through a wood chipper
b) put his feet in cement and drop him in a deep swimming pool
c) crush his head in a vice
d) let him become a zombie and chain him up in the hope of getting in touch with his humanity.
e) let him become a zombie and chain him up, then do horrid experiments on him.

Or you can make up your own choices! Isn't it fun to think about!!!!
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Re: What do you really value in a person?

Postby twistermind » Tue Sep 08, 2009 9:32 pm

I cried my friend! :(
Has he to be a bf or an ex-bf?
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Re: What do you really value in a person?

Postby Parador » Tue Sep 08, 2009 11:49 pm

It has to be someone you LOVE. That makes it a much harder decision. Heck, I could crush any stranger's head in a vice to keep him from turning into a zombie that's going to gorge on my flesh. But what about a loved one?
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