GAD VS. AvPD

Don't they ever need guys to works lots of overtime? You could be the overtime king. Or get another job and work two jobs. I am almost always half asleep or exhausted. It works out. It gives me a great excuse not to be social. I can just tell people that I'm tired.

The thing is, that women find me very attractive, or use to anyway. But I still froze up like I couldn't believe someone so beautiful could possibly be interested in me. End result, I would beat myself up mercilessly when I would blow another shot at a beautiful female.

I was like that. Women have not showed interest in me in many years now. I think 30 is the magic number. That's when you turn into the pumpkin that no woman want. How old are you?

Parador wrote:Don't they ever need guys to works lots of overtime? You could be the overtime king. Or get another job and work two jobs. I am almost always half asleep or exhausted. It works out. It gives me a great excuse not to be social. I can just tell people that I'm tired.

The thing is, that women find me very attractive, or use to anyway. But I still froze up like I couldn't believe someone so beautiful could possibly be interested in me. End result, I would beat myself up mercilessly when I would blow another shot at a beautiful female.

I was like that. Women have not showed interest in me in many years now. I think 30 is the magic number. That's when you turn into the pumpkin that no woman want. How old are you?

Closing in on 50 fast. Spending the last 10 years in a bottle certainly didn't help things. But Parador, isn't so much of being attractive to women depending on the feelings we have about ourselves? Have you ever noticed being in love with someone, and suddenly seeing more drawn to you than before when you felt crappy about yourself? My problem was that I was always in love with the wrong woman, and ran from the good ones.

But Parador, isn't so much of being attractive to women depending on the feelings we have about ourselves?

No. It is a total mystery what arracts women. You see plenty of scuzzo guys with women. Alcholic guys and guys in prison who have women trying to save them. I remember a classic Ann Landers story about a woman who was in love with a guy who threw kitchen utensils at her kids. She couldn't leave him because she loved him SO MUCH.