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Postby H3lix » Thu Oct 02, 2008 9:40 am

I go on a killing spree... Counter Strike :P

I have anger issues for sure, but my guess is for you its most likely your sleep.

What I say is you have to start taking chances, and #######5 jobs, thats part of life, theres plenty of teachers without jobs atm, that probably wish they could teach retarded monkey more less brats :P

Look at it this way, if you get rejected, thats 1 person, 1 person out of 6 billion... and counting. And dont forget to look at the people who've accepted you too :D

I had low self esteem issues (drugs helped out and losing weight) so I know its Much easier said than done, but you got to take a risk and be practical and realistic. You cant expect everyone to like you, because some will think $#%^ of you. Its life, and I got plenty people both ways.

I was rejected from my rather preppy group of peers when I became ###$ up. They didn't respect me, looked down on me etc... Now I identify with the smokers and the stonners and they're all really great people, the rejection made me a better person.

Not sure if this helps, hope it does. Best of luck with life in general and im sure you'll do fine. If you got questions for me for whichever reason send me a pm. Il be glad to talk to ya some more.
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Postby Parador » Thu Oct 02, 2008 12:26 pm

I get that all the time. I'm not sure what to tell you. I've had so many bad things happen. Not just a long time ago, but recently with dentsists. I can't even sue. It does feel like the whole world is against me. I feel like blowing the whole f@#@ing thing up.

Probably the best thing is to take out your anger with vandalism or something. I know someone who goes around breaking people's mailboxes late at night. Might something like that help?
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Postby A_FishNamedEric » Mon Oct 06, 2008 5:43 pm

I actually find certain strategy games help with anger management sort of things. Just choose a country, label someone your devout enemy, and work ceaselessly to end them. I'll admit I've played as the Ottomans, sacked Rome, and built a Mosque on the Vatican more than once :oops: Can also lead armies of viking warriors to pillage villages for money, etc. Can be a fun, if slightly disturbing >.> way of letting off steam, so to speak.
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Postby Parador » Tue Oct 07, 2008 12:33 pm

I had some old furnature in the basement once. I used to smash it against the walls and break it up when I got really angry. Could you try something like that?
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Postby Parador » Tue Oct 07, 2008 2:34 pm

We are big on guns here. They have groups that reant machine guns and go shoot up cars out in the desert. Can you do something like that? Or you could just go out in the woods and kill a few trees.

Ever see the movie Strangers on a Train? Criss Cross! We could switch murders. I've got an evil dentist who has it coming. I'd rather you just steal his stuff and burn his house. We can sell the stuff so I can get some of my money back. You wouldn't belive how much I wasted on that Mother-f#@$er.
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Postby Parador » Sun Oct 26, 2008 11:54 pm

There's a big mirror in my dentist's office. I have been thinking about kicking it in. It would make quite the mess. I probably shouldn't meet with the guy again. I'm not sure what to do. Maybe I could just send a letter demanding the $4700 I spent on him back. It would be cool to go to his office and yell "HEY ASSHOLE - I WANT MY FUKKING MONEYT BACK." Did you ever see that movie The Secret Lives of Dentists? A character played by Denis Learly (love that guy) sees his dentist at a play and yells at him like that. I want to do that SO BADLY.
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