female(s) issues...

I dunno, i doubt either of us would actually go to one. I have enough problem talking to her in person as it is, and most of the time when i do talk to my wife... its usually via instant messaging....i don't feel comfortable talking to people enough for just 'everyday' stuff, i doubt id be actually able to talk to someone in person about all this...

Okay, no problem, but I'm not sure what you have learned from coming here. I mean, you seem equally as confused about what to do now as you did when you made your first post. I get the strong feeling that you're 'content' to just continue your life as it is - i.e. Always wondering what might have been, when you should really flick the switch in your head that just closes this issue.

Kevin

The only reason im still confused i guess is because of the multiple 'episodes' each day lately that has been going on between me and my wife... And i still have yet to hear anything from the 'other one' been watching her friends and family's blogs... and so far there has been no news.... which i guess in my typical paranoid nature, i assume the worse.... I do thank you for your posts, it has helped to at least get another persons view on things, i have no one to talk to about any of it, only person i can talk to i haven't heard anything from since a bit before Ike...

Yes, I have heard that the Galveston area will be without electricity for perhaps 2 months. So, maybe she has been affected by this. I have a question for you though: If you truly wished to move-away from thinking about this other lady, then do you think checking her family's blogs and other similar things is a good idea? It would be better, surely, to just cease all activities that involves seeking contact with her.

That's all IF you truly wish to move-on though.

Kevin

I dont think i can stop thinking about her... and i dont think i want to either...

Okay, then you must live the way that you currently are: In a state of limbo with no particular direction in your love life. That is the idea I am getting, at least. You would like to be with this other woman, but you feel obliged to stay with your wife because you love her.