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The only reason I've avoided the temptation is that I get a severe anxiety reaction in sexual situations. More liken a terror actually. Now women show no interst in me. Haven't in over 10 years.

DarkComrade wrote:Being a 40 year old virgin isnt that bad, it means you have resisted the temptations of sex not many can do that, som cant even last a week or not even a day without sex.

Sex is awesome and completely natural for our bodids to do...what exactly makes someone a superior human being for not doing it?

I didnt say: It makes you a superior human being, i think you interprented my message wrong.

Well a lot of people seem to think so, I was just curious because I honestly don't understand. Maybe I exaggerated when I said "superior human being," so I'll just ask what's so great about not doing it (unless of course you truly have no interest in sex).

My intrest in sex is pretty low

I know what dc meant. They tell all the teens to resist the temptation to have sex all the time. They'll get pregnant and get STDs. I tell them the opposite because I know that the time comes when it's almost impossible to get any. You have to get it when you can. I assumed that libido would wane as I got older. It has a bit, but not nearly enough.

People never told me to resist the temptation of sex, i just find it nothing intresting. For me its annoying when im with my friends and they start talking about sex, cos it simply does intrest me and rather bores me.

DarkComrade wrote:People never told me to resist the temptation of sex, i just find it nothing intresting. For me its annoying when im with my friends and they start talking about sex, cos it simply does intrest me and rather bores me.

But if you actually wanted to, what would be the point in not doing it? Of course I mean as long as you practiced safe sex and made sure you and your sex partner both wanted the same thing (not where one was looking for a relationship and the other was looking for a one night stand).

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