What do you think would cure you?

I think if I won the lottery it would fix me.

Moneys=confidence

I would drive around in my bad ass car and be like HAHAHA poor people! If anybody rejects me i could just buy the place they work at and fire them. Gold diggers would be great for my self esteem too. Oh god i can just see it now. ME, an avoidant, rejecting someone.

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I think shapeshifters might have the ability not to age. If they can manipulate their cells so well then that should come with the territory. So if you're careful you could live indefinitely as a shapeshifter.

And it might be hard to really want a relationship as a super good looking shapeshifter who can manipulate himself to attract ANY woman. I'd just keep putting different pics up on Match.com until I attracted the ones I liked. Sure - it might turn me into a super obnoxious jerk. But I would be a sexually satisfied obnoxious jerk. That would be a nice change.

The time traveler idea is a good one too. Robert Silverburg wrote a really funny short novel about a guy who does time tours and gets himself really messed up - it's called Up the Line. You must be very careful as a timetraveller.

CriminallyVulgar wrote:I think if I won the lottery it would fix me.

Man, if I won the lottery, I'd probably first finish my final year of college but then travel around the world visiting all the places I've always wanted to see. I'd give money to my family too, and probably a large chunk to some charities. I think I'd switch residence to Rio de Janeiro and learn Portuguese to get by there. I'd probably buy an apartment in Paris too (I have been to both cities - they rock!)

Shinji, I've never heard of this R.O.C.K. guy - where did the story originate?

This thread is a little depressing.

The only thing that could fix us is apparently a bunch of ridiculous $#%^ that will never happen.

Well, maybe it would just take a blow job to cure me. I'll let you know if I ever get one. No luck tonight looking around on dating sites. Off to the movies!

Why don't you drive out to nevada Parador and find one of those legal brothels?

This thread is hilarious, hahahaha. I'm not sure which dream I like best, I have a few of my own I wish were possible. x)

Chucky wrote:Hi Sun_Girl,

I'm not sure I know what you mean, but I see lots of examples of quiet person / loud person as a relationship duet. My parents, for example, consist of my very quiet father and my very loud mother. All of her family are the loud type, in fact, and all of his side are quiet.

I have had relationships with quiet girls and even moderatly loud girls before but they fizzled out fast. It was like two magnets trying to connect at their positive ends (i.e. - it just can't happen).

Kevin.

Chucky/Kevin (Which do you want? ),

Loud people love excitement, you know? The quiet person is usually more lax in personality (not making a stir everywhere, kind of sedated). This behavior might be considered boring.

at your parents.
Isn't it funny how those opposite pairings work out? Both my parents are moderate, howevere they both came from loud/quiet families.

One of my friends is sort of quiet and shy, more moderate though. We can talk easily, but our conversations don't feel as interesting as the ones I have with my loud friend.

This thread is interesting to me. And kind of hopeful. I was already becoming very aware of the loud/quiet tendancy, but this sort of affirms what types of people I/we should sort of try chances with first, ya know?

Your probably right sun girl. But I dont have the spirit to take it spet by step anymore as Im often depressed due to the misery avpd has caused me. My stategy when I go out have a moderate amount of drink a few smokes and Im the most extraverted person in the bar. So I find a girl who I can see has a good personality, im a very good judge of character, chat her up and hope that it will click the first night. It almost work but her ultra jealous ex started making trouble and I didnt want to put her through any crap. The timing is always wrong when it comes to me.

What a douche bag her ex is. It's not like he owns her? Where do these idiots come from?
Anyway, it's alright to be bummed out. Take a break, but try to get some hope and determination back... Easier said than done (crappy advice for that reason, I'm sorry), and I think your strategy is actually good. Hehe, maybe you can just look for friend when you go out somewhere? A new friend would be nice, someone to relate to and have fun with. They can mix you with other people, allowing you to make new friends and whatnot.


Nightspore: I too don't know what I'd without my best friends (both of them). I felt so alienated and empty, like I was all alone in the world and didn't belong anywhere and probably never would, then I met them and they proved me wrong. It's so nice knowing you have at least one or two people to go to.
Btw, your best friend sounds like my soul mate. Hahaha, just joking. He probably gets a lot of girls on his case, no? Charismatic, outgoing guys like him always do.

Why don't you drive out to nevada Parador and find one of those legal brothels?

Do you know what they charge in those places? It's thousands just for an hour.

Damn I didn't know that.

I suppose blowing a few thousand on a hooker is better than dieing a virgin though.