Our partner

Problem friends

Avoidant Personality Disorder message board, open discussion, and online support group.

Moderator: lilyfairy

Re: Problem friends

Postby twistermind » Mon Jul 05, 2010 1:11 pm

Thanks for resurrecting this thread. Why?
Padador, are you realising that you are repeating the same cycle as before? Well, you know it doesn´t work in the past, what are ou going to do to change it? (It´s a rhetorical question).
twistermind
Consumer 6
Consumer 6
 
Posts: 3921
Joined: Sun Jan 11, 2009 9:52 pm
Local time: Tue Aug 19, 2025 12:37 pm
Blog: View Blog (0)


ADVERTISEMENT

Re: Problem friends

Postby Parador » Tue Jul 06, 2010 1:42 am

I looked for other jobs. This is all I could get. I am limited by my bad foot too. I have all this sick time if I stay with state government and that's a big incentive. This job is going to be MUCH easier I think. Much less pressure. In the other one I had 300-400 customers coming in every day and at least 5 or 6 were whiney maggots. I remember getting so many ridiculous accusations from my boss - yelling at a patient. Not true. Clipping my toenails behind the counter - NOT TRUE.

In this job I'm only interacting with about 12 people a day. And a lot of my day is spent by myself in the lab testing water samples.

And fervent - I DID tell her to cut the crap. I told her MANY times that I saw no evidence that she was working a full day. She would leave at 4 and say she was coming back. I told her that I didn't see her in the building anywhere after hours when she said she was completing her day. Then she would just say ridiculous things like she was working in a secret room that no one knew about. When I finally told the exec I was the one who got suspended.
Smoke me a kipper, I'll be back for breakfast.
User avatar
Parador
Consumer 6
Consumer 6
 
Posts: 5522
Joined: Wed Apr 11, 2007 7:54 pm
Local time: Tue Aug 19, 2025 12:37 pm
Blog: View Blog (0)

Re: Problem friends

Postby fervent » Tue Jul 06, 2010 4:39 am

bumr!! your friend must know the political ladder? what comes around will go around. some big whig she with will get tired of her antics! sorry she was your friend. that really sux! don't let her disturb you though! u are a pretty cool guy! just reading your posts,..your humor is great! you pretty intelligent too!

your boss accused you clipping your toenails!? LMAO! sorry,..just a funny! i try to play sudoku or file my nails when the 10 mintues a have to sit down from hospital stuff,.. but... OOOOH NOOO!! i get busted! cant do that!!! looks bad!? what the hell?? all the damn smokers walk out every hour "to check the weather" but i cant sit at my desk in front of my patients rooms play with a pocket book sudoku?? the smokers walk right by the managers office !! they know damn well they going out for a smoke! and it's a "smoke-free facility"?? PLEZE!! all crap! i have to hide in the dirty utility room when my husband or brother txt me? we can't even do that! "looks bad"..but...ok for the other nurses to go out and smoke and make others answer call lights and make up excuses where their nurse is!

you need to go to a private company! just me...i think the enviornment would be much better!
fervent
Consumer 3
Consumer 3
 
Posts: 71
Joined: Sat Jan 30, 2010 8:06 pm
Local time: Tue Aug 19, 2025 7:37 am
Blog: View Blog (1)

Re: Problem friends

Postby fervent » Tue Jul 06, 2010 4:48 am

do something with your foot! no offense...SOMETHING!! you seen a doctor about it? get it fixed! then..go get a job with private chemical company! wally,..dilbert comic is funny! i like hagar the horrible too! get betr devil!
fervent
Consumer 3
Consumer 3
 
Posts: 71
Joined: Sat Jan 30, 2010 8:06 pm
Local time: Tue Aug 19, 2025 7:37 am
Blog: View Blog (1)

Re: Problem friends

Postby twistermind » Tue Jul 06, 2010 5:54 pm

I thought Fervent was the one who resurrected this thread. I never thought you still like lazybones. lol

Hey, I´m really happy you for you and your new job. Don´t look at backwards. Only one thing I have learnt. Each person is responssible for his/her own acts. I was resentful for many years with a co-worker I loved and this fact affected me in everything. In my personal and proffessional life. Resentful only harms ourselves.
What the hell I´m going to tell you that you don´t know.
twistermind
Consumer 6
Consumer 6
 
Posts: 3921
Joined: Sun Jan 11, 2009 9:52 pm
Local time: Tue Aug 19, 2025 12:37 pm
Blog: View Blog (0)

Re: Problem friends

Postby Parador » Wed Jul 07, 2010 1:39 am

Unfortunately more cuts could be coming in 3 months. That's when they are going to look at the revenue situation and decide if it's necessary. With my luck I could get chopped again. It would be cool to run my OWN business. My former assitant ran her own restuarant before she came to work for me. She gave it up because it is so much work and responsibility. No vacations either. And you still have to hire people and deal with bad workers. Ever see that movie Extract? It's a lot like that.

Fervent - yes I have had the foot looked at over and over. I've had two surgeries and had dozens of steroid and alcohol shots. The pain is bearable most days now. But some things may not be fixable. That's just the way it is.
Smoke me a kipper, I'll be back for breakfast.
User avatar
Parador
Consumer 6
Consumer 6
 
Posts: 5522
Joined: Wed Apr 11, 2007 7:54 pm
Local time: Tue Aug 19, 2025 12:37 pm
Blog: View Blog (0)

Re: Problem friends

Postby twistermind » Wed Jul 07, 2010 5:08 pm

No, I never saw the movie but I have an idea of. My parents had a coffee-shop for twenty or more years. I don´t recommended it, mainly for an avoidant person.
I hope you won´t be hire out. I cross my fingers.
twistermind
Consumer 6
Consumer 6
 
Posts: 3921
Joined: Sun Jan 11, 2009 9:52 pm
Local time: Tue Aug 19, 2025 12:37 pm
Blog: View Blog (0)

Previous

Return to Avoidant Personality Disorder Forum




  • Related articles
    Replies
    Views
    Last post

Who is online

Users browsing this forum: No registered users and 10 guests