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Re: Songs for avoidants

Postby Chucky » Sat Sep 26, 2009 9:23 pm

m1norityofone984 wrote:The Eagles - Desperado

Nice one, m1norityofone984. THey have better songs, but 'Desperado' is good for a sombre mood. The Eagles' music is just so relaxing in general trhough. One of these nights is in my head now, and Take it to the limit.
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Re: Songs for avoidants

Postby avoidandacircle » Wed Oct 14, 2009 7:19 pm

The Smiths - Ask

Shyness is nice and
Shyness can stop you
From doing all the things in life
You'd like to

Shyness is nice and
Shyness can stop you
From doing all the things in life
You'd like to

So, if there's something you'd like to try
If there's something you'd like to try
Ask me I wont say no, how could I?

Coyness is nice, and
Coyness can stop you
From saying all the things in
Life you'd like to

So, if there's something you'd like to try
If there's something you'd like to try
Ask me I wont say no, how could I?

Spending warm Summer days indoors
Writing frightening verse
To a buck-toothed girl in Luxembourg

Ask me, ask me, ask me
Ask me, ask me, ask me

Because if it's not Love
Then it's the bomb, the bomb, the bomb,
the bomb, the bomb, the bomb, the bomb
That will bring us together

Nature is a language - can't you read ?
Nature is a language - can't you read ?

So, ask me, ask me, ask me,
Ask me, ask me, ask me

Because if it's not Love
Then it's the bomb, the bomb, the bomb,
the bomb, the bomb, the bomb, the bomb
That will bring us together

If it's not Love
Then it's the bomb
Then it's the bomb
That will bring us together

So, ask me, ask me, ask me,
Ask me, ask me, ask me
Oh, la...

Belle & Sebastian - Expectations

Monday morning wake up knowing that you've got to go to school
Tell your mum what to expect, she says it's right out of the blue
Do you went to work in Debenham's, because that's what they expect
Start in Lingerie, and Doris is your supervisor

And the head said that you always were a queer one from the start
For careers you say you went to be remembered for your art
Your obsessions get you known throughout the school for being strange
Making life-size models of the Velvet Underground in clay

In the queue for lunch they take the piss, you've got no appetite
And the rumour is you never go with boys and you are tight
So they jab you with a fork, you drop the tray and go berserk
While your cleaning up the mess the teacher's looking up your skirt

You've been used, you're confused
Write a song, I'll sing along
Are you calm? Settle down
Soon you will know that you are sane
You're on top of the world again

Monday morning wake up knowing that you've got to go to school
Mum said she had little choice when she was young, so why should you?
Do you went to work in C&A, 'cause that's what they expect
Move to Ladieswear and take a feel off Joe the Storeman

Tell Veronica the secrets of the boy you never kissed
She's got everything to gain 'cause she's a fat girl with a lisp
She sticks up for you when you get aggravation from the snobs
'Cause you can't afford a blazer and you're always wearing clogs

At the interval you lock yourself away inside a room
Heed of English gets you, asks you, "What the Hell do you think you're doing?"
"Do you think you're better then the other kids? Well get outside."
You've got permission, but you've got to make the bastard think he's right
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Re: Songs for avoidants

Postby avoidandacircle » Wed Oct 14, 2009 7:39 pm

Belle & Sebastian - Mary Jo

Mary Jo, sitting alone
Drinking tea, she just got home
She wants, I don't know what you want

Mary Jo, living alone
Drinking gin with the telly on
She wants

The night to follow day and back again
She doesn't want to sleep
Well who could blame her if she wants?
The night to follow day and back again
She doesn't want to sleep
Well who could blame her, if she sleeps?
Well who could blame her, if she sleeps?
Well who could blame her, if she's sleeping?

Mary Jo, back with yourself
For company, keep telling yourself you're young
It'll happen soon

Mary Jo, no one can see
What you've been through
Now you've got love to burn

It's someone else's turn to go through Hell
Now you can see them come from twenty yards
Yeah you can tell
It's someone else's turn to take a fall
And now you are the one who's strong enough to help them
The one who's strong enough to help them
The one who's strong enough to help them all

Mary Jo, you're looking thin
You're reading a book, "The State I Am In"
But oh, it doesn't help at all
What you want is a cigarette
And a thespian with a caravanette in Hull

Because life is never dull in your dreams
A pity that it never seems to work the way you see it
Life is never dull in your dreams
A sorry tale of action and the men you left for
Women, and the men you left for
Intrigue, and the men you left for dead

Belle & Sebastian - Put The Book Back On The Shelf

Sebastian you're in a mess
You had a dream, they called you king
Of all the hipsters, is it true?
Or are you still the queen?

Like getting blood out of a stone
The city left you all alone
You came to dance, but there's no poignancy
When they all leave you standing alone

The wider issues of the day
Don't interest you, you'll have to pay
For looking at the floor
When people talk to you

You wrote a book about yourself
The people left it on the shelf
You'll write another one
Now you've got a story that's worth talking about

Are you happy with yourself?
Are you talking to yourself?
Are you happy with yourself?
Put the book back on the shelf

I know the company you keep
You're on the sofa hidden deep
While on the telly Sid James speaks
To you like God

You're always looking for a sign
But boy you blow it every time
You hear a voice begin to speak
You ignore it and go softly to sleep
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Re: Songs for avoidants

Postby m1norityofone984 » Thu Oct 15, 2009 10:41 am

Heavenly - Wasted Time

Time is running out on my way
I already belong to the past
And getting closer to heaven
It's hard, cause my spirit is willing
But my flesh is weak
We are living in a brave new world

I am still a prisoner
Shutting away indoors
No light through the cracks, no freedom
Walking round and round
Alone with my soul
Banging my head against the walls of prison
My kingdom

Fight on to survive

Out of time my life becomes
An absolute hell on and on
I am falling down
Freedom to survive

I don't want to end it now
Run away with head held high
It's hard to wait
Lost in jail of evil
My kingdom

My entire life
Flashing before my eyes
But the sad reality
I'm still sentenced to die
Bring back all memories
Haunting me day and night
Reaching back in my destiny
Full of misery

[Chorus:]
Time - Wasted Time
In this darkness night, make your choice
But there are so many ways you can go
Biting the dust or staying alive
Secret time
In my cell, I wonder why
Why I chose the road leading to hatred
and crime
For me it's too late
My life is done
And I will roam till kingdom comes

Time - wasted time
In this blackness night, make your choice
But there are so many ways you can go
Dust to dust or staying alive
Secret time
Wasted Time

Sin after sin
I am waiting in the cold
The deliverance light
Slowly I am heading to the valley of the damned
I am falling, falling through the night

[Chorus]
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Re: Songs for avoidants

Postby m1norityofone984 » Thu Jul 15, 2010 5:11 am

I thought of this reading while listening to Kansas - The Wall

I'm woven in a fantasy
I can't believe the things I see
The path that I have chosen now
Has led me to a wall
And with each passing day
I feel a little more like something dear was lost

It rises now before me
A dark and silent barrier between
All I am, and all that I would ever want be
It's just a travesty
Towering, marking off the boundaries
My spirit would erase

To pass beyond is what I seek
I fear that I may be too weak
And those are few who've seen it through
To glimpse the other side
The promised land is waiting
Like a maiden that is soon to be a bride

The moment is a masterpiece
The weight of indecision's in the air
Standing there, the symbol and the sum of all that's me
It's just a travesty
Towering, blocking out the light and blinding me
I want to see

Gold and diamonds cast a spell
It's not for me I know it well
The riches that I seek
Are waiting on the other side
There's more than I can measure
In the treasures of the love that I can find

And though it's always been with me
I must tear down the wall and let it be
All I am and all that I was ever meant to be
In harmony
Shining true and smiling back at all who wait to cross
There is no loss
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Re: Songs for avoidants

Postby panzerfaust » Sat Jul 17, 2010 5:49 pm

Jimmy Eat World - The Middle

Hey, don't write yourself off yet
It's only in your head you feel left out or looked down on
Just try your best, try everything you can
And don't you worry what they tell themselves when you're away

It just takes some time
Little girl you're in the middle of the ride
Everything, everything will be just fine
Everything, everything will be alright, alright

Hey, you know they're all the same
You know you're doing better on your own, so don't buy in
Live right now, yeah, just be yourself
It doesn't matter if it's good enough for someone else

It just takes some time
Little girl you're in the middle of the ride
Everything, everything will be just fine
Everything, everything will be alright, alright

It just takes some time
Little girl you're in the middle of the ride
Everything, everything will be just fine
Everything, everything will be alright, alright

Hey, don't write yourself off yet
It's only in your head you feel left out or looked down on
Just do your best, do everything you can
And don't you worry what the bitter hearts are gonna say

It just takes some time
Little girl you're in the middle of the ride
Everything, everything will be just fine
Everything, everything will be alright, alright

It just takes some time
Little girl you're in the middle of the ride
Everything, everything will be just fine
Everything, everything will be alright, alright
Am I avoidant or are you repulsive?
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Re: Songs for avoidants

Postby landofstone » Fri Jul 30, 2010 11:12 pm

Can't believe no one's posted this one yet, but -

There Is a Boy That Never Goes Out by The Lucksmiths.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=omjNXvTFh_g

Put the radiator on – it’s freezing
I’m coming over later on this evening
And leave the television off
At least until the conversation’s run its course

“Ba-ba-bada-ba-ba” goes the backing vocal
I’m trying not to be so antisocial
Truth be told, I’m not entirely hopeful
I’ve woken up on one too many floors
But my favourite was yours

It’s freezing this evening...
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Re: Songs for avoidants

Postby Pancakes7 » Mon Aug 02, 2010 9:19 pm

Clairvoyant Disease by Avenged Sevenfold

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=62WKt8lcffM

The curse by Disturbed

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VHu9aEuI7NM

Mister Cellophane by John C. Rielly

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TJnVqyyNR9M

In Dreams by Roy Orbison

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zbxsmcT7GOk
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Re: Songs for avoidants

Postby orange » Tue Aug 03, 2010 9:01 pm

The Clash - lost in the supermarket

I'm all lost in the supermarket
I can no longer shop happily
I came in here for the special offer
A guaranteed personality

I wasn't born so much as I fell out
Nobody seemed to notice me
We had a hedge back home in the suburbs
Over which I never could see


I heard the people who lived on the ceiling
Scream and fight most scarily
Hearing that noise was my first ever feeling
That's how it's been all around me

I'm all tuned in I see all the programmes
I save coupons from packets of tea
I've got my giants hit discotheque album
I empty a bottle I feel a bit free

Kids in the halls and the pipes in the walls
Making noises for company
Long distance callers make long distance calls
And the silence makes me lonely

I'm all lost in the supermarket
I can no longer shop happily
I came in here for the special offer
A guaranteed personality

But it's not here, it disappeared...
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Re: Songs for avoidants

Postby denpfco68 » Sun Aug 08, 2010 8:50 am

I don't know if this has been posted, but it's the first song I thought of...

In My Room - The Beach Boys
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l71pbhqnvNM
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